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Brian Bond- Field Report (at Bar/Lounge)
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Author:  Brian Bond [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 11:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Brian Bond- Field Report (at Bar/Lounge)
Field Report:
Bar/loung --- HB9 --- 37 years old (11 years older than me) --- NO close but great smooth game and conclusions
The text in red is what i find more interesting.


So, I would like to share a field report from this past Friday! To summarize, I did not close because I got a little too greedy (will explain) but what I did was pretty well done!

So, Friday night I end up at a local nightclub with a couple friends. I see this mixed Asian/Latin hb9 dancing with a friend. She went to seat at a table right next to the dance floor.

As im dancing close to her table with my back turned to her, I put my drink on top of her table and I go “watch my drink and don’t you dare drink it while im not looking”. She laughed and punched me in the arm. For a couple times I would turn back, take a sip, look at her with a mean face and then to the glass and back to her. So then I went for the kill: I grab my drink, I stand right next to her, shoulder to shoulder, I take a sip and I touch her so she would look at me. I look at her with a weird face as imp tasting the drink and I go:

“did you put anything on my drink? … You’re not trying to drug me or anything are you?” to which she laughed and punched me again, so I move between the 2 girls and I tell her “imp just messing with you. I saw you dancing and having fun with your friend, and now I see you seating here with a serious face, like, it just doesn’t click!” she said she was a little tired bla bla bla. I turn to her friend and I say “im very sarcastic, I hope your friend don’t think im actually serious, but she looks so tense. Is she always like this?” … and she tells me that she had just come out of a long term relationship. PERFECT!

I turn to my target, she asked me my name, we exchanged names, and I told her “listen, im extremely bad with names. Don’t take it the wrong way if I forget your name in a couple minutes, but I always remember people either by their faces or for something that makes them different form other people”. At this point, her friend gets up and says she is going to smoke a cigarette. I automatically pull the chair towards me, and the friends looks at me and smiles. I proceed with asking her “so, tell me one thing that makes you different from all these people here”. She said idk and just asks me if imp married or have kids to which I say no.

She asked me if I had long hair, because I was wearing this red winter hat. I had to bullshit a bit here. I told her I had long hair but I cut it last week, but I wear the hat cause everyone looks at me like “what happened to your hair” and I’m tired of all that attention lol. I ran the Mystery/Style routine of “you know what I miss about having long hair?” for the first time and YES it did make her go a little nuts. I should have just closed it right there but I don’t like to put up a show in a place where a lot of ppl know me.

I told her “im gonna take a wild guess here. Don’t take it wrong if im not correct, but I have a strong feeling you just got out of a long term relationship, am I right?” she looked at me and gave me an HI5 (I got this info from her friend). She asked me what made me think such a thing, and I told her “lets go outside for a minute, its too hot and loud here”.

I took her outside, and she asked me my age, and I answered “im not telling you. This is the 3rd personal question you made in the past 5 minutes … “she goes “really? I haven’t asked any personal question!” I said “come on, you asked me my name, there is nothing more personal than that!” she agreed. I told her I would guess her age. I said 33 (and I thought I was guessing at least a couple number high), she tells me she is 37.

I proceed to tell her this: “listen, we barely know each other, we are most likely not gonna see each other again so im gonna give you a once in a lifetime opportunity. I find it very helpful to open up with strangers, some1 I don’t know and just get it out of my system, instead of telling my close friends. So, feel free to get that rush out of your system, just don’t punch me or something like that cause then I will have to get physical”. She laughs and she starts telling me how she has a 5 year old daughter, she just moved from New Mexico, she is getting divorced, etc. Once again, I was stupid enough not to just escalate and close the deal right there. It was freezing outside so after like 15m we walked in, she starts dancing with her friend, I stay there for a bit dancing with them, and I go to the bar to get a drink.

There was this 6 set of hb8/9 by the bar holding shots. I grab my drink, I raise it to join them and I asked “what are you guys waiting for?”. One of them tells me that her friend is still waiting for her shot because she asked for something different. So I go right next to that girl, I asked what she wanted, I called a girl that I know to make her drink, and she tells me that its her friends bday, and I tried to guess her age. Once again I got it wrong but she told me her friend was turning 25.

So we toast, I go next to the bday girl, I wish her happy bday and I tell her “if I guess your age, you owe me a shot. If I get it wrong, you get 2 shots on me, no questions asked!”. She agreed, I guessed it (lol, another hint gotten form a friend lol), we go take the shot and then I remember about the hb9 Asian/Latin! So I go back to the dance floor and they were nowhere to be found.
A friend of mine walks up to me and goes “you fucked up big time! She was looking at you since you walked to the bar and she grabbed her friend and left as soon as she saw you going to the bar to take a shot”. Yap, I felt like shit! AND the funny part was when I go “fuck it… im going for the birthday girl, I walk close to her and her friend gives me this nasty look, and the bday girl looks at me and turns her face right away. I think she got pissed that I pretty much took the shot and left OR maybe her friend told her that she had told me her age lol

Well… end of story … I did not close, but guys, the first pick up was smooth! Got some good conclusions out of it AND I learned something im gonna start using: get info from the friends and play the “wild guess” game! Besides, my “im really bad with names” routine is again proven to get conversation flow going BUT make sure you do remember her name, it will make her feel special (in my case, I actually forgot her name maybe 1 minute after she said it to me”. Also, my “it feels good to open to a stranger” routine was also ONCE AGAIN approved. Guys, if anyone decided to use this routines, I would appreciate you tell me how it went with you to see if we have the same outcomes!
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