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Author:  Memm [ Sun Dec 18, 2011 2:59 am ]
Post subject:  Opener to mid discussion help! (In field report)
First field report,
Mall
5:30 to 9:00

Over a course of 3 and a half hours. I approached 4, 2 sets.
Overall summary of the success:
Openers were successful, but went blank from transition from opener to mid discussion, resulting in them leaving, or me. Body language and voice projection were above medium scale. Eye contact and smiling at the right time was also successful. Rejection from all of them, but approach anxiety is now over. Going to anyone with an opener was my goal, and i achieved it, even though i didnt get numbers, i feel like an alpha man.

Number 1:
Me and my friend were in the food court, i saw 2 HB's. one was a 7, and one was a 9. I went around the food court, trying to find food to eat, which they saw me at least twice before i went up, which is bad (i know), i finally got up the courage over 8 minutes to go up to them. HB 9 is ashley, and HB 7 is abby. Here is the convo:

Me: Hi can i ask you guys a question? (leaning in (bad)
HB's: yeah sure.
Me: (Went to go and get a chair, and sat myself down with confidence) smiling
Me: (Friends girlfriend cheating opener)
HB 7: Yeah, i guess thats cheating
Me: Okay, but is it still cheating if she kisses another girl?
HB 9: Lol why would she do that? thats like weird..
Me: I know thats weird, i just needed it answered
HB 7: How old are you?
Me: Im in highschool, wbu?
HB 7: were sophmores
Me: so am i.
HB: Are you here alone?
Me: (Time constraint with friend, also im pretty sure they saw my friend which is also bad.)

More convo

HB 9: So why are you just asking us? Dont you have other girls to ask?
Me: Well, you were the first ive seen, so yeah.
HB 9: Okay... (Laughing)
Me: Neg (Nose twitching, its cute)
HB 9: (Laughing and a little offended but in a good way)

And then i went blank, so i just said i'd stop bothering you two, and left.

Number 2:
HB 8 and HB 6

Me: Can i talk to you guys for a sec? Quick question.
HB: Ummmm, idk, sure..

I led them over to a spot on the rail, and they followed. felt alpha.

Me: (Girlfriend opener)
HB 8: Well, you should just stay out of it, in my opinion.
Me: Stay out of it? Thats terrible, what kind of friend would i be?
HB 8: Well you dont want to get involved, just wait it out.
Me: If you got cheated on, would you want your friend not to tell you?
HB 8: Idk, we have to go though.

Number 3:
HB 7 and HB 4

Me: Can i ask a quick question?
HB: No.
Me: FOREVER ALONE!!!!

(at this point, fucking around)

Number 4:
HB 2 and HB 8.

Barnes and Noble. They were looking at books.

Me: Hey, do you guys know interesting books?
HB 8: (Isolated already, 1 on 1, her friend just left i guess) This one.
Me: Cool, (Grabbed it from out of her hand and examined it quick.) Whats it about?
HB 8: Well its just a book i have to read for an assignment.
Me: Over winter break?
HB 8: Yeah. What grade are you in?
Me: Im a sophmore, what about you?
HB 8: im a junior.
Me: Cool, whats your name?
HB 8: (dont remember. Ashlynn i think)
Me: Nice to meet you (shaking hands)
Me: So again, why do you have to read it?
HB 8: For the assignment... (didnt listen /facepalm)
Me: Oh yeah.. duh.. (And then i went blank)
Me: Okay, well it was nice meeting you, bye.

I saw her again and waved to her when i went out of barnes, terrible convo, but i still felt alpha.

Please tell me what you think. Advice is great! And if you have any ideas for DHV's and opener to mid game transition, please tell me! I feel like if i am too straightforward to go to mid game discussion, i will get rejected. So please help! And i really dont know what to say after, which makes my mind blank.
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