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Author:  Skyy [ Tue Dec 04, 2007 1:49 am ]
Post subject:  Bonding with AMOGS (or Sargin Dudes)

Ok, so I've moved around recently. I've just got a job that requires me to make a lot of social connections with people in a new area. Pick up has given me a lot of strategies to use when dealing with AMOGs and AFCs, along with giving me a chance to pick up HBs. Of course, alot of it I learned in business school, but pick up forces me to go out and do that at the same time. We all need friends, and meeting people helps us facilitate the pick-up.
Strategies for bonding with AMOGs-
Talk about sports-if you don't know this stuff, pick up a newspaper. Read it and stay current. Let them do the talking. Ask what their team is. Even if you know just a little bit about a team, let it slip and let them continue. You guys know it as well as I do, we love this shit.
Talk about girls-For one thing, it lets them know that your interest in them is NOT a gay interest. It also bonds you with them because you all share the ultimate interest, the reason for our existence, to procreate. Share some strategies you use to pick up women, sometimes you can even give up books like the "game." (although not with AMOGS, usually) Prove how this stuff works on hired guns, or women in the bar.
Talk about Hunting/Fishing/Guns-Where I live, this shit will totally get in you into the door of a good friendship.
Talk about what they do-This is where I can make some money if I figure out if they're in a relatable industry.
Talk about cars-We all have one and most dudes at least know their way around them somewhat.
Tell dirty jokes-With women I tell cute jokes (at first). I got a whole arsenal for dealing with dudes.
Give them shit-you can rag on them a little bit, but only when they've become comfortable enough with you. This is kinda like negs for women but its after you earn trust.
Compliment them-Seriously, this works. I noticed a guy's shoes the other day while standing outside a bar smoking. I said "Damn, those are some nice shoes, where did you get them?" We all like to be complimented, but you have to do it in a way that's not "gay".
Ask questions-The more interest you show in other people, the more interest they will show in you. With women, you kinda stick to only doing this in the comfort phase.
Most of this I learned in "How to win Friends and Influence people" by Dale Carnegie.
So, that being said, not only did I get one HB 8 to text me back and forth all night long, but I also made two friends and two business contacts last night. If anyone has anything else to add, please do. (Guess what I do. It rhymes with "Shales".)

Author:  billyt [ Tue Dec 04, 2007 3:49 am ]
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This is good stuff - thanks for posting Skyy. I too have moved from one area where I had lots of single friends to a place now where most friends are married and starting to have kids. This has forced me to sarge solo several times. Fortunately bars where I am are so crowded that it doesn't really matter and I actually enjoy moving from bar to bar on my own schedule.

Still, life is easier with a good wing and I've started to connect with a guy at work whose all up on the david d. cocky funny stuff. What you said works - at a work function I asked him "how's the chick thing going" and he got right into it - instant rapport. If only it was that easy with HBs!

Author:  R.O [ Tue Dec 04, 2007 7:46 am ]
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Great Post! Thanks!

/R.O

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