Ok so after the advice I received I went out last night with the sole intention and one word in mind KINO.
Being a saturday night I was hoping for it being busy and I was right. I took a couple of buddies with me, one who has so much natural game and doesn't realise it, "youve got such a skill there and you dont even realise it" I said to which he responds "I dont know what your on about, a girl she aint s*** to me unless she can demostrate otherwise, thats why i talk to them, out of politeness".
LOL thats a good way to think about it...
So anyway I actually didnt get into the local club until about 11pm so things were already pretty lively. I took further advice from a couple people here, I didn't drink any alchol but asked for my pepsi in a tall glass making it look like I had mixers, it looked ok.
I opened a few sets really had fun this time, I tried the lint neg a few times and got great reactions so thats becoming a permanent resident in my so called "bag of tricks, I managed to get hold of a really cool "hypnosis" effect, where you give them a piece of foil, roll it into a ball and ask them to hold onto it, you suggest that it gets really hot and then it does to the point where they can no longer hold it, and need to throw it to another 'set' member... works really well looks a bit like pass the parcel and with people screaming "NO WAY!" and jumping around - hey guess what the attention is all on YOU and I found this to link in amazingly... Walking off I'd say I had 6 or 8 people/groups come up to me asking what I was doing with them, so that made my life a hell of a lot easier... Still no real Kino!
So I'd been successful, opend sets and just like I heard Mystery say one time "numbers are just the receipt of your sarge, always push for more when possible, push for a bounce".
PLUS the whole point of me coming out was KINO and I hadn't really done anything. So getting ready to bounce only with my buddies we're walking from the club to another more relaxed SPAM when Jemal (the one with natural game) laid it out for me "you know what your problem is?" I briefly explained Kino and he said with quite a lot of humour... "dont quote all that PUA s*** to me, your problem is that you just talk"
Then it all became clear "just shut up and work her through body language" - This had so much "Dustin" from 'the game' about it the whole just look at a girl and get her to come with you...
So I walked in to the enxt bar, smiled, looked around and made eye contact, 3 second rule, approached... forget opener I approached at a 10angle and touched a HB8 on the shoulder, I got close to her and "You smell so familiar, follow me real quick I need to show you something" took her hand and led her to the couches, she came willingly... squeezed hand, squeeze back, let hand go she grabbed again... IoI IoI IoI... its on!
MY THOUGHTS: 'holy s*** this is working, its working, i love kino and this whole game, ok calm the **** down and work her'
Sitting on the last available couch she instantly said "why did you bring me over here" "well as soon as I walked in I saw you're aura and it drew me to you, thing is I have a gift in the area of suggestion and magic, do yuo believe magic spells work?"
My god I couldn't have sounded more like a flipping hollywood BS actor if I tried, I pulled out the hypnosis routine and run it on her, she looked a bit freaked out but then said "I like you, you're fun" (what is it with girls and 'your fun' comments??... maybe I'm a Fungai (oh dear! LOL))
Anyhow I completely lost my game plan and so I started looking to escalate, I got my 3 IoIs within the first 2minutes of arriving and getting her to the couches, I noticed her friends had moved a little closer but saw she was laughing and playfully hitting me and had backed off several paces. I started the whole putting her hand on my knee thing and then she got the idea and left it there, didnt really say much just looked around the club... out of nowhere "so mr magicman, do you want to kiss me?"
OMG that was my line im thinking, I was waiting about 3 minutes before I using something similar, thought FOCUS 'well I could let you kiss me but then what do I get in return?' (I was happy with this response
) She said 'well you get to kiss me, isn't that enough?' I turned away... she tugged at my jeans 'Ok well I'll tell you what how about I just kiss you and give you my number and a photo then maybe we can meet up for coffee tomorrow or next week and play some more'.With that I kissed her, got her number and then she said 2 secs and got up with my fone and went running to her friends... 'Great.. what the hell is going on' she then returns and goes right heres your photo, she scrolls to photos and there her, pretty much unbuttoned top, finger on lip going "shhhh" - OMG shes hot... Quick kiss again and then she leaves with her firends...
Bit of a new one for me there... Thats my first kiss close, my first kino escalation and photo close?? LOL hey it worked... The only thing I'm not so sure about was my approach.
I was definatly 'lucky' to say the least she couldve said alot to me when I whisperd in her ear that fact she followed was dumb luck. I'll work on that but apart from that - this ones going in the Numpty Hall of Fame.
so people really do give you attention when you do them?