okay this was with a girl I met off okcupid. One of the few that turned out to be cuter than her pics. I won't go into the online chat, since it's frowned upon in here....
First I'll start out with what I wore. This outfit turned out PERFECT for me. She loved it, and I even got comments on it when we went out to eat (later on that).
Shirt:
Dan Marino Miami Dolphons throw back jersey:
Pants American Eagle Distressed Jeans:
Shoes: Nike Air Zoom 6's:
Accessories:
The first thing I did was to figure out a way to set her at ease upon first meeting. If you've ever been on an internet day 2, you remember the feeling? This was the first time she'd ever met up with a guy off PoF. I brought my laptop upstairs and gave the impression I had been working on a last minute assignment from work. Basically, I invited her in, offered her access to soda, beer, and booze in my fridge while I got ready... I heard a top of one of the Corona's crack while I was getting dressed and brushing my teeth... So I knew she was starting to feel pretty comfortable. (important: spent all morning cleaning too... a dirty place can give a girl the creeepers).
First stop was dinner (which she actually paid for). A light conversation along the way, it was about a 20minute drive.. I was really having trouble grasping if she was attracted because I had to keep my eyes on the road... When we were there.. some other AFC was trying to engage my date in conversation right in front of me! It was cool, I let him talk to her for a few minutes.... He was asking her about the football team from the college she went to.... Then HIS girl grabbed my jersey, and said, "I love Miami". At that time I was in total control of the conversation with BOTH women! Whenever they'd laugh, I'd neg them about cackling like witches! It was pretty cool.
Back on the road, about another 45 mins of driving we arrived at our destination. A sporting event, a local hockey team.. I was having a hard time keeping the conversation going the whole time. She was being a little shy, and I had to focus on driving in shitty weather.. But luckily there were no awkward pauses...
When we arrived at the game i kept negging her about something that happened a few nights ago. Being very playful of course..... During the game I kept trying to get a pic of her with my phone.. But she was able to dodge it every time! So I grabbed her hair... then said, "yeah... I'm sorry I didn't notice, you have a little gray going on here" (she's a few years older than me, so I decided to neg about her age).
About 2/3 of the way through the game she was being really playful.. so I escalated with some physical contact. Again, I tried to take a pic. She dodged it again, saying quit it, I look horrible". So I patted her on the head.... "it's okay I'm making you look pretty cool". Then she laughed, so I negged her about cackling like a witch again.
We walked out, I needed a smoke.... The ticket lady said I needed to ask before leaving the building.. I felt kinda DLV'd by this, but came back with, "I did, my mom said it was okay.". Both my date and the ticket lady cackled at that one.
Anywho... I'm drunk and getting tired of writing about this....
Long story short.....
Let her drive my ride back to my place, so I could focus on gaming her...
Arriving at my place, I invited her in for a few...
We talked for about 20 minutes...
Kiss closed HB 8.5 model from Cupid
Date set up for next weekend...
Will try and f-close her....
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