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Author:  The Wild One [ Thu Nov 29, 2007 12:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Old g/f pops up at bar while I'm sarging

Ok I went out last night to sarge with a few PUAs. I opened a three set with three amazing beautiful girls. It all seemed to be going well everything was flowing and my target was ready for me to take her. Then my ex girlfriend shows up. It was the best and most target rich place in the city and they were auctioning off girls for the night. So this girl I've been gaming for maybe an hour I come to find out knows my ex. I had told the girl I was from out of town, and so when my g/f showed up I was thinking damn I can't believe this. Then I had to hide with my PUA wing Brian, and I felt like an asshole because my friend Flash split the set and was gaming his target. So I was like this fucks up my f-close. So I ended up leaving then gaming in a few decent places nearby but not nearly as target rich. I guess after having enough relationships some can come back to bite you.

Author:  B Rob [ Thu Nov 29, 2007 1:08 pm ]
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You're stupid. Lying... can come back to bite you.

Author:  The Wild One [ Thu Nov 29, 2007 7:32 pm ]
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Well the simple fact is I got caught in a bad situation. Stupid well I wouldn't call it stupid I would call it a fluke situation. I mean common like you've never told a white lie? If you think you haven't then you're a hypocrite.

Author:  JSmooth [ Thu Nov 29, 2007 9:00 pm ]
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This happened to me before. I met an HB8 in a club, we went and got her friend at a nearby bar. I was doing really, really, well with them. I walked out of the bar with both of them on my arm. I'm haven't made it 3 feet from the door. My ex-wife is right there. I spot her and say, Hello! She says something like what are you doing? I tell her I'm out meeting people having a good time. I apologize for being rude intro my ex-wife to the girls and walk away. Then I tell the girls who it was. Anyways, didn't hurt my f-close that night with them.

Author:  The Wild One [ Thu Nov 29, 2007 9:38 pm ]
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Yeah it didn't hurt my game but I never had that happen before. I'm guessing I should think about trying Nashville. I need to change up my gaming locations for fun.

Author:  JSmooth [ Sat Dec 01, 2007 1:55 am ]
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Whenever you are going to be in the area let me know. I'm mainly just active on the weekends. I have a couple of wings down here that head out with me from time to time. PM me and we'll show you some descent locations to run game. 8)

Author:  speed-bird [ Sat Dec 01, 2007 5:45 am ]
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I don't see the point in lying, it's a very risky strategy that can come back to bite you as the other guy says (in stronger language than he should have used, maybe). The other thing about lying when sarging is it can throw you off your stride. Lying makes you subconsciously stressed a little more (polygraphs are supposed to detect this) and a bit of stress like that can be the difference between an F close with a 9 and a number close.

Author:  alex_hitchens [ Sat Dec 01, 2007 7:06 am ]
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haha yeh i tell a few white lies here and there, but in gerneal i try keep it to a minimum not because Im worried about the stress or risk so much, but because I want to be able to be myself..."unconcious competence" i think its called

Author:  L.A. Tripp [ Sat Dec 01, 2007 9:12 am ]
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LOL, in my regular club, I have this happen about every weekend anymore. I've learned to just take it in stride. I've opened and talked to girls that know her. Later I've ejected from those sets and bounced immediately in with another set, using the previous as social proof. Tonight, she was there again, but I was talking to so many different sets it didn't matter.

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