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| Author: | Octave [ Sun Sep 25, 2011 1:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What went wrong? |
Last night after receiving 3 texts in a row from this girl i met, i went to hang out. We went to my friends house where we wound up watching a movie with a bunch of people just hanging out. I had my arm around her the whole time. Things were going well. Then i asked her if she would like to come back to my place to which her response was "yea maybe". I was with four friends walking back to there dorm (couldnt isolate because they live in the same dorm and she still hadnt decided what she wanted to do) So were all walking back and me and her hold hands on and off. We pass my place and i ask if she wants to come. She becomes hesitant, makes up excuses why she cant (This is where i should have stopped said goodbye and lived to fight another day, but i didnt) I said well we can go back to your place if youd like, and if not i can just go home. She said if i could sneak in then thats fine (possibly an indirect lie?) We get in and then go to her room, and walk into her Roommate fucking some guy XD. So me and her leave, go back to my place. When we get in my room to be honest things were slightly awkward for some reason. I hadnt kissed close still, so i went in for a kiss. She pulls back and tells me she just wants to sleep for the night. So we just cuddled. But i got a strong vibe she was uncomfortable. I walked her home in the morning, asked for a kiss goodbye and got a no. WTF went wrong. If she didnt TRULY want me to come back to her dorm, why did she walk back to my house after, why did she get in my bed. And why upon getting to my place still sleep in my bed when she could have taken a couch or asked me to sleep on a couch? |
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| Author: | fin_daddy [ Sun Sep 25, 2011 2:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What went wrong? |
Quote: Last night after receiving 3 texts in a row from this girl i met, i went to hang out. We went to my friends house where we wound up watching a movie with a bunch of people just hanging out. I had my arm around her the whole time.
You did not kino her sexually. You acted like a friend.Quote:
Things were going well. Then i asked her if she would like to come back to my place to which her response was "yea maybe". I was with four friends walking back to there dorm (couldnt isolate because they live in the same dorm and she still hadnt decided what she wanted to do) So were all walking back and me and her hold hands on and off. We pass my place and i ask if she wants to come. She becomes hesitant, makes up excuses why she cant (This is where i should have stopped said goodbye and lived to fight another day, but i didnt) I said well we can go back to your place if youd like, and if not i can just go home.
She found you fun, but not sexually appealing. That's because you did not kino and arouse her while watching the movie.Quote:
WTF went wrong. If she didnt TRULY want me to come back to her dorm, why did she walk back to my house after, why did she get in my bed. And why upon getting to my place still sleep in my bed when she could have taken a couch or asked me to sleep on a couch?
She did not want to disturb her friend fucking with the guy. She thought you are just a fun, friendly and trustworthy guy she can safely cuddle with. She knew you wouldn't be a threat, because you are so nice.That's a LJBF situation, which happened because you were not sexual at the beginning of the evening together. I would suggest buying Gambler's Stealth Attraction videos, they tell you a bunch of stuff you can do to make a girl horny! Now, it's very likely you're on her friend zone from now on, and you should find targets somewhere else. You might want to change you relationship to a sexual one, but it would not be easy. Good Luck either way! Yours, Daddy |
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| Author: | PepperSpray [ Sun Sep 25, 2011 5:12 pm ] |
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You're in the friendzone boss. |
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| Author: | Octave [ Sun Sep 25, 2011 6:07 pm ] |
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I think you nailed it to be honest.... i dont think ive ever gotten the ljbf, but definitely is what happend. I think it was because the whole time i was with friends around her, and didnt wanna be more physical then having my arm around her and hand caressing. |
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