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| Author: | slyder2412 [ Thu Nov 15, 2007 8:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Not sure wtf is going on? |
Hey what's up guys? A few weeks back i number closed this girl..she didn't pick up. Next 2 weeks or i make her work for my attention and this ttuesday i decided to try again. I had just gone ski diving so i was intriguing the class about that and she was literally trying to jump infront of me to get in on the conversation. So we walk back to our rooms and the attraction is there so i concentrated on comfort building and we had some decently "deep" topics. I could check off all possible IOIs such as mirroring me RIGHT after i change or walk around her she turns. Biting her lips/finger as she's looking at me...steady eye contact...mass amounts of laughter. I could see she was freezing cold but continued wanting to stay and talk. So i finally say it's enough and go "We should really hang out". Which she replies "yeah!, you have my number so give me a call...tonight..tomorrow..ill be around" Thing is...i forgot i didn't have her number on this phone so i looked her up on facebook(2 days later) and said "im getting out at 6:45..im going to the cafeteria ...come and watch me eat! =P " ...i have yet to hear back a response...all girls that give me crazy IOIS flake..i dont get it!! |
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| Author: | penbird44 [ Thu Nov 15, 2007 8:42 pm ] |
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dude you have to kiss close when you see the open window, and then get her number, and that message i think thats lame, just my opinion :b, send a message on face book hay i forgot that i dont have your number give it! or something like that , dont have all your intercations on face book good luck penbird |
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| Author: | slyder2412 [ Sat Nov 17, 2007 2:48 am ] |
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She has yet to respond on facebook so there went my attempt at a day 2. I now have my phone back so i wish i asked for her number through facebook first before trying to plan a hangout through facebook. I just read through a big checklist of IOIs and this girl had ALL of them. She waited for me for like 5 min as i talked to my friend and she just stood there...she was freezing cold and still waited for me to end the conversation. And she ended with "call me tonight, tomorrow, whenever..ill be around". And then flakes? I thought IOIs were genuine and usually concrete...any ideas on how to respond to this? |
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| Author: | neogamer [ Sat Nov 17, 2007 4:38 pm ] |
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Interest can be a fleeting thing. Just try to build it, and maintain it. |
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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Sat Nov 17, 2007 11:19 pm ] |
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LOL. IOI's being concrete? Yeah, in a perfect world. Sorry dude. I agree with that facebook message being lame. You actually should have told her you lost her number. You could still try that, unless you have her number now. If so, give her a CALL and explain that to her. Then, invite her to tag along with you somewhere else that you two can have fun. Here's an example from my night last night that show IOI's aren't always concrete: just-to-show-you-guys-none-of-us-is-per ... 11203.html |
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| Author: | slyder2412 [ Tue Nov 20, 2007 7:45 am ] |
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Hey guys thx for the responses. A few days after i sent her my attempt at C+F which i admit was lame but whatever...she sends me a facebook request on facebook but didn't respond to my message. So know she damn well saw it. I'm pretty sure if i pursued her at that moment or that night it would have been an easy close...but i told her i had other plans and after our vibing and her consistant IOIs...i really thought she'd be at my beckon when i decided to hang out. It's not normal for me to ignore the fact that she IGNORED me so i'd normally say wtf you didn't answer..but this is needy so i won't even make that comment. But i feel like a tool sending her another message for her number/to hang out if she didn't even bother to respond to my first message. What should i do guys? thanks. |
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| Author: | nuk1m [ Tue Nov 20, 2007 8:40 am ] |
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I would say wait a few days, maybe even a week. Then message her saying you lost her number. It is a very legit reason.. what does anyone else think? |
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