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Author:  Vivid [ Sat Nov 10, 2007 7:37 am ]
Post subject:  Field report from an rAFC
Alright guys, I must say that after reading The Game, and reading a TON of david deangelo's stuff, I'm starting to come around. I started with a girl I've known since HS, she's a hair stylist and knows almost EVERYONE in this area. Needless to say, she was a challenge to get.

It started in a club, and she recognized me and my wing. We talked to her for a while, AMOG'ed the 5 guys that were hitting on her, and exchanged numbers. A few weeks later she's wanting to go out with me almost every weekend. This weekend we went out to a bar and it was a pretty big success for me. Before this she was saying things like "I hope I have a shot with you" and things like that, which in my mind says "Cha-Ching!" lol.

Luckily my wing is awesome at opening, which is how I got in with her. However I'm awesome at DHV and Comfort Building, which kinda comes naturally to me. The only problem I had tonight was AMOGing the guys that were hitting on her. Luckily my wing was there to do it for me, and it's something I need to work on lol. But anyway, things are going great with the HB8 hairstylist and she kept saying things like "You know the difference between you and all these guys that keep hitting on me right?" Haha I just shrugged my shoulders and said something like "I guess I'm just cooler than all them" That made her laugh and she totally agreed.

But anyway, the lesson I've learned most in all this is it's all in how you present yourself and talk to the girl. If you make it sound like you're spitting lines then you'll get nowhere, you have to actually have a personality. But make sure the personality is bright and an attractive one. The song "Girls just want to have fun" is incredibly true, and if you let the girl have a lot of fun then you're definately in.

Anywho, I'm probably rambling because it's 2:30 and we just got back from the club, so I'll cut this short. Hopefully my wing Avidity responds to this and we can get a discussion going.
Author:  niceguy [ Sat Nov 10, 2007 8:15 am ]
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Nice FR man. Glad things are working for you.

The underlying question in my mind and reason for this post is - Are you sarging her or is she someone you consider a friend?

I'm going to break this down from a viewer's perspective...
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she was saying things like "I hope I have a shot with you" and things like that
It's awesome that she said that. This is very direct of her. How did you respond when she said this?
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A few weeks later she's wanting to go out with me almost every weekend.
How many weekends have you been going out? If it's been several weeks since she's said "I hope I have a shot with you" then you may be finding yourself in the friends zone.
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"You know the difference between you and all these guys that keep hitting on me right?" Haha I just shrugged my shoulders and said something like "I guess I'm just cooler than all them" That made her laugh and she totally agreed.
This can be looked at in 2 ways...Either

1. All the guys who have hit on her have been AFCs and she sees you as a prize male...or
2. She is saying you are a totally cool friend.
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But anyway, the lesson I've learned most in all this is it's all in how you present yourself and talk to the girl. If you make it sound like you're spitting lines then you'll get nowhere, you have to actually have a personality. But make sure the personality is bright and an attractive one.
Absolutely agreed 8)


Once again, the question of whether you are looking to keep her as a friend (make her a potential pivot) or take her to your bed needs to be asked. Only you know the answer, of course.

PUA skills come from effectively seducing her within a relatively short time-frame. Sure, you can seduce her 6 months from now, but from what Mystery teaches, the ideal time-line from cold approach to seduction should be around 7 hours.

Not criticizing you at all bro. I think it's awesome that you've got this girl setting you apart from all the others. Not only does it show that women (one with high social proof in this case) want to be around you, it boosts your confidence. Both of those help you in life.

Just don't want to see you posting down the line about a one-itis situation.

Keep up the good work, champ. I'd like to follow more of your FRs
Author:  Vivid [ Sat Nov 10, 2007 11:08 pm ]
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The underlying question in my mind and reason for this post is - Are you sarging her or is she someone you consider a friend?
I'm most definately sarging her. I don't think we said more than 2 words to each other in HS so we weren't really friends before this.
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she was saying things like "I hope I have a shot with you" and things like that
It's awesome that she said that. This is very direct of her. How did you respond when she said this?
This was said over IM, right after she told me she has a connection to me that she can't even have with her girlfriends. I ignored the compliment basically, and went on to talk about something else because I thought if I said something direct about it, it would be a turnoff.
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A few weeks later she's wanting to go out with me almost every weekend.
How many weekends have you been going out? If it's been several weeks since she's said "I hope I have a shot with you" then you may be finding yourself in the friends zone.
Considering that she's grinding and making out with me at clubs, I'd say I'm far from the friend zone. ;-) I've only been ACTIVELY sarging her for maybe a week or two.

Something else that made me smile that night.. She mentioned a previous conversation we had about her liking the way I look in glasses. Of course, I was wearing them that night and she pointed it out when we were dancing. I grinned at her and said "Well duh, I'm trying to seduce you." She then whispered in my ear "It's working".
Author:  niceguy [ Sun Nov 11, 2007 4:53 am ]
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The underlying question in my mind and reason for this post is - Are you sarging her or is she someone you consider a friend?
I'm most definately sarging her. I don't think we said more than 2 words to each other in HS so we weren't really friends before this.
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she was saying things like "I hope I have a shot with you" and things like that
It's awesome that she said that. This is very direct of her. How did you respond when she said this?
This was said over IM, right after she told me she has a connection to me that she can't even have with her girlfriends. I ignored the compliment basically, and went on to talk about something else because I thought if I said something direct about it, it would be a turnoff.
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A few weeks later she's wanting to go out with me almost every weekend.
How many weekends have you been going out? If it's been several weeks since she's said "I hope I have a shot with you" then you may be finding yourself in the friends zone.
Considering that she's grinding and making out with me at clubs, I'd say I'm far from the friend zone. ;-) I've only been ACTIVELY sarging her for maybe a week or two.

Something else that made me smile that night.. She mentioned a previous conversation we had about her liking the way I look in glasses. Of course, I was wearing them that night and she pointed it out when we were dancing. I grinned at her and said "Well duh, I'm trying to seduce you." She then whispered in my ear "It's working".
Awesome blossom.

I just want to make a comment on this statement you made

"she told me she has a connection to me that she can't even have with her girlfriends. I ignored the compliment basically, and went on to talk about something else because I thought if I said something direct about it, it would be a turnoff."

Talked to an HB who is very familiar with The Game and she had something to say on this very topic. I learned a lot about communicating with a girl when she said...

Women want to connect on emotions, not shared experiences.

How I interpret that is in the following examples..

Guys interacting...
1: Have you ever travelled?
2: Yeah
1: Where?
2: Germany
1: Sick, I've been there too!
2: Oh yeah? Did you check out this?
1: Yeah, I did that. And I did this.
2: Sweet! Me too!
etc

Girls interacting...
1: Have you ever travelled?
2: Yeah
1: Where?
2: I went to Germany
1: Oh really? I've been there too. Why did you go and how did you like it?
2: I went there on a student exchange program. I lived with a family I had never met before. They were awesome and I loved every minute of it.
1: Wow! I can totally relate. I remember when I got transferred to another state for my job. I had to make a brand new social circle. It was nerve racking at first, but then after I got to know the people, I fell in love with the job and the new area.

What this is really showing is that you made an awesome connection with your girl. This is an emotional connection...If you don't know where you connected, you need to find this out.

You should elicit her emotional connection to you and relate to her even more. This is not an AFC thing to do. You will become her prince and solidify it.

Next time you see her, if I were in your shoes, I would build on this and then you will most likely be able to do whatever your heart desires with her.

Good luck, have fun - and I wanna see a Lay Report soon ;)
Author:  Avidity [ Sun Nov 11, 2007 5:29 am ]
Post subject:  AMOG
Vivid has built great comfort building and DHV. We actively sarge together. I was with him during this field report. She was very into him. We both have our down falls. I need to work on DHV and Comfort building. Opening and AMOGing is second nature to me now. And my wing, vivid, needs to work on opening and AMOGing. Together things work out great though. At the club last night a AMOG came up and started stealing the game. I gave him the chance to AMOG her. As his wing I told him he really needed to do something. I decided it was my turn to shine. After listening to the conversation I realized all the AMOG had as DHV was being in the army. The whole conversation was based on it. So I basically pointed out in a non obvious way this was all he talked about. He jokingly made a comment about fighting. I said "Wow nobody better mess with this man. He's a trained killer. Look at the size of his arms." He was rather small. When he was describing places he'd been and how much fun he had I also made some comments. He was talking about Iraq and I said something on the lines of "When I'm having a beach party I prefer to have water." He thought it was quite funny, but he then had nothing to talk about. He tried to continue but it came off as bragging. The HB grew bored quick after that. She soon left with my wing. There were also a couple of guys that moved in on her and started dancing with her. I walked into the group and asked if she missed me. Then I held out my hand and led her back to my wing. Other than this, vidid is amazing. He is definitely coming up in the game.
Author:  niceguy [ Sun Nov 11, 2007 9:39 am ]
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Hehe, that's why the game is so much fun...Seeing the improvements is my favorite part of this process.

It seems that you guys are great wings for each other. You guys realize your strengths and weaknesses and complement one another. I definitely see that with my wing group. Our core group of 12 have all sorts of guys at different levels of the game and we are seeing improvements every week.

Work hard, play hard. I look forward to reading some more of your field reports. Keep it up!
Author:  Student X [ Sun Nov 11, 2007 10:25 am ]
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"she knows everyone in this area"

when i read that i went oooooo, caution!

im glad everything went well, im sure you are aware, but women gossip, and any severe messup couldve become gossip with "every hb in this area" "some guy tried to hit on me really weird..he had pink mohawk" (peacock)

having said that well done, she sounds like a lovely girl.
Author:  Vivid [ Sun Nov 11, 2007 3:46 pm ]
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Thanks for the replies and input guys, also... Did I mention her older sister is an HB10 playboy model?

Better keep the game strong lol...
Author:  niceguy [ Sun Nov 11, 2007 8:52 pm ]
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Thanks for the replies and input guys, also... Did I mention her older sister is an HB10 playboy model?

Better keep the game strong lol...
I like it. Leave Avidity at home and we'll wing together ;)
Author:  Vivid [ Mon Nov 12, 2007 3:17 am ]
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lol I can't do that to my homie, but do you live in ohio? Perhaps we can go out in columbus or something.
Author:  Avidity [ Mon Nov 12, 2007 1:41 pm ]
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lol. Trying to move in on my wingman niceguy? I agree with vivid. Let's all go out together and dominate the city.
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