Hi Guys
Im new to all this PUA stuff, but i have read the book "The GAME" which opened my eyes this world, im sure many of you are the same.
I thought as this is the first time i have tried some of these techniques i should share my experence briefly.
i started the night with my cheat sheet and only the knowledge of a few openers and a handful of DHV's. if im honest none of this is that new to me im an ok looking guy say around a 6 and to some women a 7!, and i've never been afraid to speak to women, but i thought i would try some material and see how it goes.
The night began very simply while waiting for a bus, a one set (i trying to use the lingo) sat down about five feet from me so i walked past her and opened with the jealous girl friend which had the immedate affect of her asking me to sit next to her so she could be better.
I went through the routine and she offered her opinion, by chance she had been dicussing the same topic earlier that day and was quite into the whole topic, my first reaction was "this stuff works better than i thought it would" we spoke a little about why she had been discuss this topic, she happened to be a kids councilor and this was their subjuct of conversation that night, about five minutes in my bus came, we said our goodbyes and the was that, i may have been able to go for a number close but i thought that was to soon, plus she was devout christian (no chance of getting laid!) but the night was still young!
Next i met my friends at a pub not many sets to open and none of them had anything above a 7 but i thought "practice my perfect" so i opened a couple of sets sets how lies more and the JG they went ok but my transition to the DHV left something to be desired, so i made a quick exit from both two sets (not the level of women i was looking for anyway)
We then made our way to a club, again not my kind of club (didn't like the music or the style of the people) but at least the where a few 8 around and i believe you should try to enjoy yourself where ever you are.
So i came into the club smiling and opened the first two set with an 8 i saw, my back was to her and i opened with the JG again over my shoulder, as soon as i began to lay the guide lines of the story out she moved round so she faced me, i began to think this is a good sign, she gave me an in depth analysis of the situation, i said "thanks thats helped alot" and began to walk off, then stoped to attempt a DHV (i think this is the right order of things) i attempted a version of palm reading which consists of telling her she will win the lottery but will hit by a bus a week later at least it won't be a red bus as you'll be out of the conutry (this is mean't to be a joke) she laughed, and in an instant in realized that was the end of my material, and thus i made a hasty exit (in hind sight i should have simply went into AFC mode but i want to leave that all behind)
After my short lived success i decided to go to the bar for a drink, as i got to a spot at the bar a 6 with huge tits (so maybe a 6.5 - 7) was standing right next to me i decided to keep the work rate up or i mght give up for the night.
I angled my body away and opened her with "have you been served yet" (AFC i know) suprising it was as simple as that that! she began to talk about a problem with her drink, as she spook i quickly began to rifle through mind among the limited arsenal i had available to me (more like a young boy trying trying to decide which stone to fire from his sling shot) i choose the ESP routine, 1-4 she chose 2, next 1-10 this time it was more successful but she saw straight through, i managed to recover by telling her it was her eye movment that made me choose 7, it worked (i mentally wiped the sweat from my brow) we flufted for a bit (i think that thats the term) and then i send her on to her friends, i simply hadn't planned where to go form there.
This set the shape of the night, open , DHV, fluff and nothing. Had i been in AFC mode i would have complemented a and went for some kind of kino but as it was, i was content with this level of game.
A few did come back and fluff some more but this was not the night for me to pick up by complete chance, i wanted to earn it and know it was my choice more than there's!
From this post you can tell i came home alone even though there were a number of female friends i was with inviting me back to there's (maybe that was the wrong choice, oh well!
) And thus end's my first night, the first step to becoming a PUA
I think i learned a simple lesson always have a game plan, you wouldn't drive a car without a map so! why pick up women without a game plan!
Dispite my failings i enjoyed the experience, i think this could be the start of a exciting adventure.
P.S. if there are any PUA's in South East London I need a wing so drop me a line (but as you can see i still have alot to learn)
JB