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| Author: | cj090 [ Sat Aug 06, 2011 3:16 am ] |
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Tomorow ive planed a list of events in an effort to combat my approach anxiety, fear of rejection and ultimately give me enough confidence to regularly meet women i call it transformation day let me start by telling you a bit about myself. My name is cj im a 20 year old submariner in the US Navy pretty good looking guy but i havw no balls. when i was a kid i was teased for having a slant in my skull mishpaening my head and that ultimately became the root of my lack of confidence. when i was 16 i kind of change and was more outgoing but that came to a halt when i was 17. i didnt have my first kiss untill i was 17 same with my first girlfriend and i just had sex for the first time about a month ago. Though i seem to be ok with women i cant rally credit myself every chick ive even scored was either from knowing her prior or through the internet. ive only been rejected face to face a few times and thats because ive never seriously approached. so in short i have no experience approaching women and that sends me into a downward spiral maing me unconfident in my day to day. this goes along with me not really having friends to lean on because my shipmates dont like the fact that i am different and dont strive to be like everyone else. so those two reciprocate off of each other and make a whirlwind of low self esteem and lonlieness that clouds my life. I NEED A CHANGE. Tomorow august the 6th i plan on a day to turn my life around by practicing simple social skills: smiling, eye contact, small talk to level out your tone and not mumble. Then purposly get rejected by hitting on every woman i see just to get a feel of rejection and to realize that everyone gets rejected and learn to bounce back from it. then after im warmed up and nerves calmed i will start confidently approaching and get numbers. to end off the day i will go to a club and work the club scene with the intent of sleeping with a fine chick. if you want to do this with me id love someone to keep me going with live feild reports as we do this transformation day. write a comment let me know were all in this together guys. |
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| Author: | Verbal Seduction [ Sat Aug 06, 2011 6:45 am ] |
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you cant do all that in one day but PLEASE listen to me i see your new to pua ect ect. write a list of EVERYTHING/anything you want done and cross one out each time you accomplished it WHY? ive had this problem i was a pro in the beggining when i started pua now its just part of my daily life and i didnt notice how much its changed me or how much i am ahead of were i started before so...write a list bro =] i wish you the best |
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| Author: | cj090 [ Sat Aug 06, 2011 1:39 pm ] |
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na man i have 2 disagree cause its not like im ugly with 0 social skills its im afraid of rejection and approaching see if im hitting on a girl i already know its easy cause im a pretty fun guy and good looking its just when i see a random chick who i want ti know i freeze up and pussy out cause i fear rejection and that reflects my everyday life infact that is the reason im in the military i didnt really apply to college because i feared failure and rejection i need to get past this hump and being more comfortable approaching, i think, is the start. |
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| Author: | Verbal Seduction [ Mon Aug 08, 2011 7:22 am ] |
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man ive had that same problem for 4-5 months just dont think about it the words will come out =] |
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