PUA Forum :: I have a racial limiting belief

well like the title says I have a limiting belief about my race. I feel as an African-American male that I cant get women of different races. I have approached different races of women and number closed but this still is an issue for me. Then it doesn't help when I try to sarge online on stuff like match to only see the preferences list White or anything other than my ethnicity. Its rather discouraging but I dont show it. I feel as if only the 9's and 10's of whites, latinas, and asians hate african american guys but would date anything else(mainly white guys). Is there a way to get rid of this LB?

Author:	EmperorLelouch [ Thu Apr 21, 2011 3:30 pm ]
Post subject:	I have a racial limiting belief
well like the title says I have a limiting belief about my race. I feel as an African-American male that I cant get women of different races. I have approached different races of women and number closed but this still is an issue for me. Then it doesn't help when I try to sarge online on stuff like match to only see the preferences list White or anything other than my ethnicity. Its rather discouraging but I dont show it. I feel as if only the 9's and 10's of whites, latinas, and asians hate african american guys but would date anything else(mainly white guys). Is there a way to get rid of this LB?

Author:	Themagicalone [ Thu Apr 21, 2011 3:56 pm ]
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Quote: well like the title says I have a limiting belief about my race. I feel as an African-American male that I cant get women of different races. I have approached different races of women and number closed but this still is an issue for me. Then it doesn't help when I try to sarge online on stuff like match to only see the preferences list White or anything other than my ethnicity. Its rather discouraging but I dont show it. I feel as if only the 9's and 10's of whites, latinas, and asians hate african american guys but would date anything else(mainly white guys). Is there a way to get rid of this LB? Same thing with me I can get a bad black girl real easy but its really hard to pull a white girl or spanish girl over an 8 for me

Author:	Taos Lust [ Thu Apr 21, 2011 4:28 pm ]
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Depends on how you talk and dress. Spanish girls will suck your dick quick if you know a few words in spanish. Learn some Spanish and you'll have more latina girls then you need. White girls, just try to look clean cut, be a little reserved, but be smooth. Bout it, black kidz makin' shit hard.

Author:	EmperorLelouch [ Thu Apr 21, 2011 5:33 pm ]
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Well most of my sarging is at my community college. I dress urban but not with my jeans sagging and I dont come of as"thuggish". I only know a bit of spanish(even though my cousin is a spanish teacher) but the language is uninteresting to me. I need to learn it but I don't like it. Like the dude in VA said anything above an 8 don't really like black guys. I try not to let this limiting belief get to me but it does. I just feel that if I were latino or white this would be easier and PU doesnt seem geared towards me(african-americans in general). Like right now I'm my second straight terrible month of sarging and this keeps coming up in my head.

Author:	djatc [ Thu Apr 21, 2011 11:15 pm ]
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It's ridiculously hard to get past the beliefs we have (I feel the same way you do regarding race) and sometimes I feel like I have to "be" a certain way to sarge. The big point is that race/height/weight/looks shouldn't matter, but it is a big confidence issue.

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Author:	Taos Lust [ Fri Apr 22, 2011 3:57 pm ]
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You have to know your audience and calibrate. Some girls might not dig thugs and shit, realize this. Some girls may prefer "ghetto intellect" or a laid back personality. Whatever the case may be. But don't assume that you can just approach every woman straight thugged out and get some pussy. Isn't the way it works. Need go for urbane skater look if you still wanna rock the urban look and talk to girls. If that doesn't work, change venue, and stop whining :/. For example, it took me forever to learn that I was doing game and shit all wrong. You might be coming at these women the wrong way. Sometimes during the day time you gotta take shit slower than at night. It means it might take a day or two just to get a number in a way that will establish a call back. Then you call a girl back in a week. In day game, you kinda have to bait and sit, it's like fishing, boring as hell and slow. I still say change up your look and go for the urban prep. That seems to be the style of dress that gets a vast majority of women because it crosses so many genres of dress.

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