Before anyone starts this isn't on getting women or going out speaking to loads of people. It's about chaining my life so that I can become happy and along the way hopefully help others that have been in my situation this is a 30 day challenge to change my life. I promise I will not lie at all if I fail to do something please let me know about it.
So I'm doing like a little diary if you like, Setting goals for myself and actually telling you the truth if I'm doing it or not! no one has to reply to this but this would be great if you add some stuff and telling me if I'm doing something wrong. This isn't about getting women or going out talking to loads of people. It's about bettering myself and my relationship and making me an all around happier person. Lets say I am copying the 30 day challenge from Neil Strauss but instead of picking up women and getting confident because without sounding cocky I know how to do that and I'm not a shy person I have real issues with my life and the way I am living it. So lets call it my 30 days of challenge.
What made me want to do this is reading up on this form all day how people have change their lives for the best and living it to the limit I want to do the same I sit in my room day in day out like my castle and I am fed up getting depressed and if I carry on I will lose my girlfriend and if I'm honest the only person keeping me fucking sane at the moment. I have no job no goal or nothing I'm not a lazy person what so ever just not very lucky, People say you make your own luck I do think that is partly true yes but I've been looking at it like this! Allot of my friends have been lucky because their dads have got them into jobs with them because they are high up or know people as my dad is not like that yes he has a good job but he isn't in the position to get me a job with him. If I'm honest I don't want a job like that I want to get it off my own back and say yeah I did it by myself.
Anyway at the start it will be small goals just to get me through the door. It's to late in the day now to actually to start Day 1 so... I will write my goals for day 1 and start it tomorrow I will not take brakes or anything this will be a full 30 day none stop challenge and throughout I will tell you if I was able to do it or not or if I wasn't and why etc... I would like some help with this if possible tell me what I'm doing wrong also suggestions for goals etc...
So my main goals I will be working towards is...
1.Get a job I love
2.Get myself out my comfort zone ( my room )
3.Pass my driving test
4.Better relationship with my parents
5.Keeping my word to my girlfriend.
Most of you already have all that to some of you they might be the basic things everyone has in life but I long to have that even if I did a couple of them things I would be such a happier person. Here goes wish me luck
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