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| Author: | theciscokid [ Wed Mar 30, 2011 8:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Help me, I've lost my game. |
Hey guys, I really need help. After having learned about pua 2 years ago, I have experienced moderate success after starting uni 6 months ago. Basically, it has helped me to understand how flirting works since I was a complete loser as far as that was concerned. Whenever I got into the zone I was able to get some success yet in these 6 months I only made out with two girls. It may sound silly, but those two girls gave me a lot of confidence. I thought "HA! THE PENNY HAS DROPPED!" I had finally figured out how to use pickup art to get girls. However, every time I've been out since, whether to a club or a pub, I didn't get ANYWHERE. I just could not meet any girls who showed any interest. Hell, I became excellent at reading interest in general (playing with hair, touching, body dirction, etc), but I could not read any interest from any girl for me! And slowly, but surely, I would get depressed by the end of every night. Alcohol-induced crying on the streets of Glasgow at 4 am in the morning became common. Then there is my selfimage. I always believed I was slightly above average looking, yet the fact that I don't seem to be getting anywhere really knocks my confidence down. And when I see guys who are scrawnier, shorter, or uglier (shallow, I know) making out with 2 or 3 girls a night, well, it knocks my confidence down even more. However, at the same time, it makes me realize that looks don't have that much to do with it, and it must be a game thing if even THEY get somewhere. So here I am guys. I felt like I was super confident when I started uni. I talked to girls, flirted a lot, I felt very alpha. But as time went by, I began losing focus and now every time I go out with my crowd and don't get somewhere with any girl, I get really depressed. I need help. Can someone restore my frame? Lead me in the right direction? Thanks. |
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| Author: | natedizzle [ Thu Mar 31, 2011 5:42 pm ] |
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Do the newbie approach again to get your confidence back because then you start not caring if you get rejected or not and just have fun. If you worry about being good then your getting caught in your ego and your game will start to hit a platue but if you learn from failure and have fun no matter what then sure you will still get rejected but it won't matter because you learn from failure more than success. |
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| Author: | Brometheus [ Sat Apr 02, 2011 4:01 am ] |
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You're 'losing it' because you're making everything outcome dependent on the girls. Your sense of self worth is being derived from hooking up with women you don't even know, and the very women you're seeking can see right through that kind of attitude. Go out and have fun. Play the stupid games with girls you'd play when you were 5: thumb wars, hand slap game, crack bad jokes with her, dance ridiculous and make an ass of yourself. If you don't believe you're a fun awesome guy to hang out with, no one else will either. So go out and do some dumb shit tonight, who gives a fuck right? |
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