AWESOME!
Just don't get caught up in being revengy and stuff
It's bad for your health bro
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| Author: | oneshot1405 [ Mon Mar 28, 2011 1:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Hit rock bottom, lost all dignity, righting this wrong |
Well guys, it's finally happened. I hit rock bottom, made a complete fool of myself, and lost respect from everyone, and lost a lot of self respect. My story is a classic one that we've all been through before, but god dammit enough is enough. So i came into college last year as a freshman and acted like a total PUA. Yeah i studied the material and routines, but more importantly i had that inner game, that attitude, not givin a fuck what anyone thought, totally confident and fearless. Long story short, a attracted and dated this girl for about a year, and we broke up recently. We pretty much split because i had lost all my game and was acting like a total paranoid, AFC pussy. I lost all my edge, and to no surprise, she kicked me to the curb hard. So desperate, pathetic, AFC me tried to lure her back with telling her how much i care about her and how things will be so different if she gives me one last chance. It was essentially begging her, and it only caused me mass amounts of pain and humiliation. I have never felt more embarrassed and ashamed of myself in my entire life. Now i am turning this thing around. Im getting my motivation back, my swagger, my pride, my personality, and making shit right. Any advice from you guys would be awesome, or any words of motivation for this new start for me. Or if you've been here before i'd love to hear your story. thanks guys. |
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Mon Mar 28, 2011 2:49 am ] |
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You are gonna be fine, bro. The world gives you what you need to become complete. What you needed was to lose this girl, get back into pick up, and regain your self respect. Go forth and conquer. |
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| Author: | - Adam Jovani [ Mon Mar 28, 2011 3:28 pm ] |
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You're looking at this whole wrong brother. You didn't hit rock bottom. You got a WAKE UP call. The fact that she dumped you doesn't mean squat. The relationship with HER made you feel the way you feel. Act the way you act. Do the things you do. I'm guessing it's the first GF you had, right? In any way, that is a good thing she dumped you. Now you know what to be on a lookout for the next LTR you have. Remember you got her once. It means you can get other girls as well. Hope this helps. Keep us posted duude! |
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| Author: | oneshot1405 [ Mon Mar 28, 2011 5:40 pm ] |
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Yeah pretty much first long term GF. I've definitely Shits gona change. I appreciate the words of encouragement guys! |
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| Author: | IvanDyn [ Mon Mar 28, 2011 6:01 pm ] |
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yeah, I'm with Adam. I always say: every seeming "bad situation" contains a treasure that can make you a happier person if you manage to find it. Look for that treasure! Otherwise, I'd say: FEEL your emotions (as opposed to overanalyze). Stay in your body, do some meditation. The worst thing you can do is to dissociate and start beating yourself or some one else up. Once you manage to stay in your body you can create far better connections with yourself and others. But most importantly: COMMIT to your happiness (and that means the happiness of others). Have a daily ritual where you focus on everything that you already have and what you want to have. Give to people (genuinely). You'll do great! Ivan |
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| Author: | oneshot1405 [ Tue Mar 29, 2011 1:37 am ] |
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Great post man, great advice. Im gettin back to all the things that me proud to be who I am. I used to be a great friend, with a polarizing personality. It's disgusting that ive been reduced to what I have been lately. Best advice I can give everyone here is that you know right from wrong in your heart. It might not be what you want, but your heart always knows the right way to go. My heart was tellin me to bail for half our relationship, I refused to listen and look what happened. |
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| Author: | oneshot1405 [ Thu Mar 31, 2011 6:39 am ] |
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So i have been completely locking her out for 4 days now, and in four days she has sent me 5 texts and one facebook message, all of which i have completely ignored. Her roommates dont like her either and are telling me how she's freaking out that Ive stopped giving her attention and is really gettin bothered that ive been ignoring her texts. God this feels good lol... |
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| Author: | - Adam Jovani [ Thu Mar 31, 2011 4:55 pm ] |
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AWESOME! Just don't get caught up in being revengy and stuff It's bad for your health bro |
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