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Author:  Rafael D. [ Wed Mar 23, 2011 1:54 am ]
Post subject:  Dilemma - WARNING! Highly sexist & distoreted view
Having the support of a seduction mastermind is invaluable: smart people who understand how the Game is played united to evolve and solve the issues that come from Seduction. Ah! :D So, if you can add an illuminated perspective in the following dilemma, I truly appreciate it.

DILEMMA: How can we trust/respect/like/love women if we know that they treat us well and lick the floor we stepped on only cause/when we have HIGHER STATUS than them? We all know that if you have lower status they'll be cunts who'll gradly humiliate you for absolutely nothing other then let it be known their position (and get theirs higher while getting yours lower).

I mean.. is there a need to treat badly any lower status person? No.
Some say "it's a bad idea for women to treat losers well".
Agreed; not treating well doesn't mean mistreating. And we know that women can get pretty nasty for absolutely no reason other than "status leeching".
Anyways, that's a perspective worth changing.


Any more enlightened views on the matter?
Thanks in advance
Author:  BrianFL2 [ Wed Mar 23, 2011 2:39 am ]
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I think if you judge women by the same standard that you would judge a male friend, then you get these negative viewpoints. If a woman looks at a man and wishes he was more like her girlfriends, she will be disappointed. All of this is why the old gender roles actually worked, even though they are supposed to be wrong.
Author:  Rafael D. [ Wed Mar 23, 2011 3:30 am ]
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I think if you judge women by the same standard that you would judge a male friend, then you get these negative viewpoints. If a woman looks at a man and wishes he was more like her girlfriends, she will be disappointed. All of this is why the old gender roles actually worked, even though they are supposed to be wrong.
Thanks for your answer, BrianFL2. I'm not sure I understand what you mean by it though.
What would be a useful pov that would take gender roles more into account? I don't see how it could be the answer, but hey, the fresher the idea the better.
Author:  BrianFL2 [ Fri Mar 25, 2011 5:58 am ]
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"DILEMMA: How can we trust/respect/like/love women if we know that they treat us well and lick the floor we stepped on only cause/when we have HIGHER STATUS than them?"

This is not really a dilemma if you have a different point of view which sees women as "seperate but equal" rather than "strictly equal". If you want a woman to love you just because you are a sweet boy, you are asking too much and you will never get it. If you believe the woman should think and feel just like you do, then its a dilemma. If you accept the gender difference then it is just a fact you must accept, so no dilemma.

If you step on a snake it bites you, if you are too unreliable or low status, you lose your girlfriend.
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