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| Author: | phhhhhhttttt [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 11:14 am ] |
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hey, I'm living in a new country don't know the language, I'm staying in like the dorms in the university.There are other people around whose first language is English so its just a matter of finding them I suppose.Any advice on making this transition easier.I might play a sport but getting injuries would be annoying.I do also intent on learning the language but it would take a while before I could pull a girls I'm guessing, unless it was in a nightclub setting. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 11:46 am ] |
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Well if it's true that body language & tonality means more than actual words,then you should focus less on what you're saying and more on your vibing. But you're 1,000% correct,club gaming would totally eliminate the need to communicate verbally. Plus you can use your exoticism to pull chiccs. Everyone loves an accent,so use it to your advantage. |
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| Author: | Chelios [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 12:24 pm ] |
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Being foreign will stand out. Use it to your advantage, get out and see what happens. Learn the language as soon as, so you can atleast have some small talk, like introducing yourself, where your from etc. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 1:04 pm ] |
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Good summary Chel'. How's your situation? |
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| Author: | Chelios [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 1:56 pm ] |
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Quote: Good summary Chel'.
My situation is non existent, the one you knew about. I'm not chasing her, she was in the wrong, I would have fool written on my forehead. I tried to get her to compromise, but she wants me begging for something I haven't done (she can wish all she likes, wont happen) and now I'm gaming again, other chicks coming into my zone. Sure she was great, but i can find even better, where she wont find someone like me!
How's your situation? |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 2:40 pm ] |
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@Chel'-I like your stand-up approach rather than bashing her. Sorry for hijacking the thread. |
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| Author: | phhhhhhttttt [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 12:30 am ] |
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ok I met a few people that speak english and got on pretty well with them alot of them women,I realy would only want them as friends and to be honest having female friends wouldnt be my speciality (usually i just meet in a night club,bang them,and good bye)anyway some tips on making them physically comfortable in a "friends sort of way" and also like to get their numbers to go out with them all as friends because I dont want to complicate things and they aren't exactly epicly hot but they seem cool and fun. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 12:58 am ] |
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@PHT-I like that approach. Many wanna-be PUA's have this hang-up about socializing with girls who arent that hot. In order to build a social circle,which you're trying to do,you have to interract with everyone:ugly,males,old,etc. If you're not trying to game them,just befriend them but in a cool way. |
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| Author: | Yoraffe [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 12:59 am ] |
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What country is it? Different countries have different tastes so it really could depend on where you are, with what you have to do to impress? |
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| Author: | Wal [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 2:39 pm ] |
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Quote: anyway some tips on making them physically comfortable in a "friends sort of way"
I have some good chick friends that I'm not interested in gaming. I usually just half-ass game them when I see them (a little kino, a little attention, smiles and jokes and laughs) and they ALWAYS want to have me out when they go somewhere. Just don't escalate it into the uber-sexual zone.Girls want guy-friends as social proof, too. |
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| Author: | phhhhhhttttt [ Sat Jan 15, 2011 11:18 am ] |
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we all went out yesterday and was great fun,I ended up banging one of the women that live in my building.Fuckin shouldn't have,didnt intend on it hopefully she wont be jealous or be awkward if I'm with other chicks. |
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| Author: | Mr_Lover_Man [ Thu Feb 10, 2011 12:12 pm ] |
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Adding to this, how do you form a social circle when you move to a different town/city in your native country? Especially if you do not know anyone there? |
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| Author: | Chelios [ Thu Feb 10, 2011 6:36 pm ] |
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Quote: Adding to this, how do you form a social circle when you move to a different town/city in your native country?
Use the internet to find meet-up's. Things that you are interested in.
Especially if you do not know anyone there? |
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