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Author:  Checkfigure1 [ Tue Dec 14, 2010 5:18 am ]
Post subject:  Goals to overcome
Hey guys,

After posting some threads and reading the feedback, I have come to the conclusion that I need to make some drastic changes. There are some major mental obstacles that I face. I feel that posting a thread about my goals to overcome will not only help me, but possibly encourage someone else to better themselves.

After some thought, these are some of the goals I would like to achieve.

1 week:

A) Talk to someone outside of my comfort zone
B) Open a single unattractive target
C) Open a set of unattractive targets

1 month:

A) Get comfortable with opening unattractive targets.
B) Make a new friend
C) Open a HB target

2 month:

A) Open a HB set
B) Get comfortable opening single targets.
C) Save money to find a place of my own to live

Ulitimate goal: Become a master pua, who is financially independant from my parents.

I will not be able to achieve any of these goals without help. Accountability is huge. I appreciate any help from you all!

Thanks :D
Author:  Appss [ Thu Dec 23, 2010 11:14 pm ]
Post subject: 
Meh, please dont post crap if your not gooing to post results on time.
bad setting imho.
Author:  Checkfigure1 [ Sat Dec 25, 2010 6:05 am ]
Post subject:  goals
Sorry for the delay in response. I have achieved the goals I set for myself this week. Nothing to hard starting out. The next goals to come will be much more difficult. I can't do it without your guys help.
Author:  Checkfigure1 [ Sat Jan 15, 2011 1:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Goals
So my one month goal deadline has come and gone. These are the results:

I completed my week one goals. I have talked to individuals that are out of my comfort zone. However I was only able to open unattractive targets only once. I was not able to progress to my monthly goal. To sum it up, I failed at my monthly goal.

There was a HB target with her friend sitting at a open table in the cafeteria. I went to open them, but for some reason I felt that I couldn't. By the time I considered my thought, I felt it was too late. When I go to open a set or talk to almost anyone, there is a little voice inside my head that tells me, "i'm not worthy to talk to them", "they will just blow me off", "what value do I have to offer them" or "i'll embarrass myself".

I have huge mental obstacles when it comes to talking with people. Let alone approaching HB sets. From the time I was young, I was taught to have little self-esteem and now it has grown exponentially into incredible low self-worth.

I am not going to give up on my goals though. I desperately need my life to change. I'll keep you guys posted!
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