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| Author: | mapner [ Sat Oct 09, 2010 3:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | 1 Night's Observations (Signs of No Inner Game) |
Last night I was out and kept noticing within the group that people had a huge lack of confidence. These are some of the clear indicators I kept seeing that expose a lack of confidence or inner game. Feel free to contribute your own, as it could prove an interesting reference of what NOT to do. - Apologizing. Obviously you can say sorry when it's really necessary, but some people seem to do it all the time. - Looking at the ground. - Being afraid to touch people. This applies to men and woman. A confidence person will wrap his arm around people, shake people's hands etc... - Fidgeting - In a public place standing near the outskirts. I see a lot of guys standing in the dark corners or edges of a bar/club all the time. It's far better to stand in the center! You'll get more attention and appear more confident. - Limited/restrained movements. This goes for dancing, and general social interaction. Smaller movements feel less confident, and more awkward. Don't be afraid to take up space. - Inability to hold eye contact - Too heavily invested in a person (in terms of body language, conversation and emotion) - Reluctance to mingle or meet strangers - Not smiling - Not taking action (e.g.: talking about approaching, but not doing it) - Staring at your phone instead of chatting with people - Generally looking like you're not having fun with the people you're with |
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