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| Author: | witrac [ Sun Oct 03, 2010 11:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Help me on my inner game sticking point! |
Hey guys! I`m going to try to give you a proper image of my situation, maybe others have been in the same place themself... This really is the only thing missing from my game, but it is the biggest thing missing. But I`m not quite sure of what it is or how to fix it... need help guys. I belive it is my confidence in myself... maybe I refuse myself from success? lets start: A thing that happens to me alot is that some of my good mates come to me and tell me how good looking I am, when in a club or at a party. They dont understand what my problem is with girls. They tell me that I can get anybody I want, not only because of my looks but they tell me that a guy like me is not a guy that gets rejected. Some of my female friends tell me that some girls may even be shy if I approach them because I`m good looking and handsome. When they tell me this, its like I`m not listening, its like I dont want to hear or belive it, what to do? I get alot of "invitations" from girls, they give me "the look", but I dont do any thing, AA i know, and working on it, but as soon as I`m in a set, I know what to do and have no problem with closing in some sort of way. Another problem is that I`m afraid of showing my sexual side to women, I have some 9s and 10s female friends, and even a 10 that I`m gaming, so I have it in me, but not permanent. My boss at the time is a 9 swedish girl, I met her at a club yesterday night and we talked. She kinoed me like hell, even if she has a boyfriend, as we met up she had her arm around me and she kind of touched my abs for some reason, several times... kinda know the signs, but what is she "telling me"? Later we sat down and talked, and she told me as she was giving me alot of iois, that I didnt seem like the guy that talked to girls only to take them to bed, she couldnt see me as the guy that would do bootycalls and that stuff. And I`m kinda not, I love sex but it has happend that I have turned girls down, only because I know that they have been with alot of other guys though... I have some standards. My question here is, what am I projecting to girls? Its not that girls dont see me as a sexual dude, I dress like a sexual dude but maybe I dont behave like one, but girls want to have sex with me and I know, my guy friends tell me that their female friends speak about me, that I`m handsome and that they want me. I kinda know that girls sometimes only want me for my looks. what the f**k is my problem? I even got a txt from a girl I met a week ago, she wondered if I wanted to share taxi "home", I turned her down because she is the ex to one of my new friends. I recently started watching RSD blueprint de-coded, good stuff. started daygame to get rid of my AA, and I have been at clubs every weekend for a month, and got #closes and K-closes easily, and been dating the girls after the weekend. Its just that I cant "ground" the feeling of confidence in myself... Info about me: 5"8 latino athletic build surfer skater adrenalin junkie good sense of fashion art and design my goal is to eventually have the skills to not be afraid of getting the girls I want, and get the girlfriend I want and know how to keep her. This is alot of info, I know. But this really is my "only" sticking points in the game. would mean ALOT to me to get some "outsiders" point of view! thx anyway guys! |
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