Lets all call them Plan A, B, C and D
Plan A is my main target, she is a 10! She is a freshman at my college and I am a junior, with that being said she also has strict muslim parents so she is rather, loose here in college. But she is actually a player, she had me spinning on her palm without me even knowing (actually, I thought I was the one in charged) she flaked out on me twice. She is a pro, she knows how to manipulate guys and she LOVES the attention (I saw her exchanging numbers with another guy when she flaked out on me the second time). Anyway most people will drop her the first time she flaked out, but she is rather clever and I know it was against protocol but its just that I thought about going steady with her and see where it goes (as my goal is to get a steady GF before I leave for the Marines) I do not know for sure if she is interested or what, she says she was and she wants to go out (body language also have IOIs, but then she also displayed the IOIs on another guy) but then she flaked out on me both times so I just stopped contacting her whatsoever
Plan B, I have known her for a while, like Plan A she is also a 10, however it was only recently she was available and we went out when Plan A flaked out on me the second time
Anyways, I would say she is rather confused and would not like to take things to quickly, our very first date which started out as only having dinner as friends (we even talked about Plan A at one point, they know each other i think), turned into me making advances and 5/10 times she refused, however she also initiated some. I think she likes it (and she likes being bossed around) however she is very careful to not make me think that she is a slut. Also, I have a feeling that she is letting me boss her around (in terms of romantic stuff) so she wont have to take responsibility and she could just blame everything on me when its all said and done. If done right, my buddy says that I can turn this seed of "friendship" and it will grow into a fruitful tree of friends-with-benefitsPlan C, some cute girl in class that keeps on flirting with me, nothing significant has ever happened really
Plan D, another girl who I have been texting with for a while.
TL;DR I have 4 girl's in line (for the moment, I am an amateur!) However whenever I am with Plans B, C and D. I keep thinking about A. IDK why....its like all the game playing turns me on, its like being in a James Bond movie with all the mind games and unpredictability and shit. What do? I cant get over A! I know we have to collect phone numbers from girls so we dont seem stuck/desperate with one of them but I dont want to seem like I am using B, C or D to release my frustrations from A.....which is what is happening!!! AAAAHHHHH