Hey people, what's up?!
This is more an issue of mindfulness than psychology, I believe. Here we go.
Lately I was wondering how one can actually punish someone by cutting time spent together, and even more, taking care of oneself by closing yourself up to destructive behaviour and at the same time not be bitter about people.
Let's say some friend from your social circle doesn't want to have you at her sit in. That is something I at least wouldn't want to deal with and therefore distance myself from that group of girls.
Not to be bitter about them or being angry and hateful would mean to forgive. But not the arrogant form (putting yourself in a POSITION to be allowed to judge forgiveness, that is). But seing that there is nothing to forgive.
Now with that liberation and open hearted attitude towards the world and people around you... how can one put boundaries and yet be fully loving and forgiving towards the people you choose to punish/ you've decided to be unhealthy for your life?
Clearly in this world, you can't let people walk over you.
I'm grateful for your answers
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