Hey everybody. I wanted to share a technique with you that has been very effective for me. I developed it with a combination of "The Secret," and quantum physics...yes I know it sounds ridiculous but bear with me
Ok. So I dont claim to understand quantum physics but one of the theories that has been presented is called "the many worlds interpretation." The simplest way that I can explain it is that every time there are several possible outcomes the universe splits and both possible are accounted for. For instance, If I flip a coin it will come up either heads or tails. There are only two possible outcomes. When I flip a coin it creates two universes one where it is heads and one where it is tails. For this technique to work you first must simply accept the fact that there are a lot of brilliant people out there who believe this to be true.
Now reflect on the fact that you are the only person for whom your universe is consistent. You are the only one that you can be certain is going to experience reality consistenty. You might go to coffee with your friend and he will walk out the door into a different universe. His experiences could be radically different than yours and the friend that you see the next time you go for coffee is just the possible outcome that you happened upon. Hard to think about I know.
Now comes the cool part. When you are gaming a girl or have a big date coming up take a minute and sit or lay down, go to the restroom, whatever. Breathe deeply for a few minutes and relax. Imagine that you are separating from reality and that you exist at the nexus of all possible outcomes. Reflect on the fact that in some reality out there you will take this girl home and sleep with her. It is a mathematical certainty. Now visualize that reality happening. She is laughing at your jokes, looking at you seductively, touching your neck and playing with your hair. You are in her bedroom taking her socks off, she is smiling at you, you are making passionate love. Commit your mind to this vision.
Finally open your eyes as you exhale and see the world around you as that particular universe where you get the lay. Most importantly you have to act as if it has already happened! As if it is a certainty that it will happen.
This works because it focuses your mind and relieves tension. It allows you to remove mental blocks that make you say and do the wrong things.