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Author:  kingless [ Sun Jun 06, 2010 12:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Total Self-Confidence
Hey guys, i just finished reading the book "Ultimate Secrets for Total Self-confidence" and I would like to share with you some things that stood out to me in the book


It never occurs to them that the reward is in the doing
and not in the end result.

It is psychologically true that we tend to
dislike most in other people those faults or
weaknesses that we have within ourselves.

Your Awareness can be defined as the clarity with
which you consciously and unconsciously perceive and
understand everything that effects your life.

Awareness also determines your concept of reality.

Every decision you make and every action you take is
based on your present level of awareness.

It is a demonstrated fact of life that what happens
to you is not nearly as important as the degree of
intensity with which you resist the reality of a
particular situation or individual. To put it another
way, you can’t help the way you feel about things,
but you can help the way you think and react to them.

You may not like the reality of a situation, but you
must accept it for the present moment. In so doing,
you will have control over your actions and
reactions.

One doesn’t have to be a mental giant to see that
resistance to reality is the cause of more heartache,
headaches, resentment, hostility and family problems
than anything else. You cannot possibly feel hurt
emotionally, get angry, resentful or bitter towards
another, nor can you ever feel “less than” or be “put
down” and hurt by others without resisting reality.

It is important in a relationship to preserve love.
In order to do this, it is necessary to realize that
you are not a couple or twosome or anything else.
Despite the abundance of poetic imagery, it is
literally impossible to merge two human beings as
one. You are simply separate individuals who have
found a great deal to share together. You came into
the world alone, and you will leave this world alone.


Yesterday's love has been spent,
tomorrow’s love is not here yet, and today’s love
must be earned.

No person is what he thinks he is, but what he thinks, he is!


More important than knowledge is imagination. - Albert Einstein

Creative imagination
takes us a step further than just forming mental
images. It causes things to come into existence. When
we are creatively imagining something, we are
actually causing it to come into being because it has
been formed, for the first time, in our minds.

You are constantly running a mental movie with
yourself as star of the show. These images determine
your behavior and the kind of life you lead. You have
the power to mentally create a new life for yourself.
Whatever you can visualize, you can have. If you can
see your desire ALREADY ACCOMPLISHED, it will become
a self-fulfilling prophecy. What you are thinking
about and picturing in your mind today, is a clear
indication of what you will be experiencing in the
future.

FORTUNE FAVORS THE BOLD

You must conceive in your mind the world you
want to live in, the situations you want to master,
and the greatness you want to achieve.

If you expect the
best, you will attract the best. But if you expect
the worst to happen, be assured that it will.

Smiling is an important means of communication
because it has a positive effect on others. Think how
good you feel when someone smiles at you!

A smile is your way of writing your thoughts
on your face! It shows that you have self-confidence.
If you lack self-confidence or are consumed by
unhappiness and doubt, you will have a difficult time
smiling.
Author:  minsok [ Tue Jun 08, 2010 9:18 am ]
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These are great concepts that have been juggled around several self-help books. They sound powerful, that's their strength. But what are they telling you? Be more aware and in the moment? Don't resist difficult emotions? "A coward dies a thousand deaths before his true death"? Cool, I'm on board, I feel empowered. Now how do I become more aware, how do I live in the moment? You have to focus on the practical part, the HOW. I do it by spending less time thinking, analyzing, having fantasy conversations in my head. I only think when I hit a wall that needs my brain. I play dumb and it feels pretty good.[/i]
Author:  Chris.Kayden [ Mon Jun 21, 2010 5:31 pm ]
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these are brilliant concepts
Author:  Hypnomatt PUA Training [ Wed Jun 23, 2010 10:45 am ]
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This is all tree hugging hippy shit.

So many guys read about "confidence" and can talk about it for hours. However they still can not approach or talk to a girl.

Do yourself a favour, get all your self help books and have a little bonfire. Then go out into the readl world and be with people.

Matt Kendall
Author:  minsok [ Thu Jun 24, 2010 8:27 am ]
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You might recall that hippies, though reviled by outsiders, have a good combination of sexual freedom and romantic idealism. Hippies place high value on interpersonal relationships. Drug use or no, I'd rather be a hippie than a frustrated, jaded, yuppie.
Author:  Terry Duckwit [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 2:58 pm ]
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Quote:
This is all tree hugging hippy shit.

So many guys read about "confidence" and can talk about it for hours. However they still can not approach or talk to a girl.

Do yourself a favour, get all your self help books and have a little bonfire. Then go out into the readl world and be with people.

Matt Kendall
I take your point Matt. I am finding that self-help material has a certain effect and is therefore valuable. But it has limitations unless you can deal with your other issues at the same time by pushing yourself socially and giving your ego the beating it deserves.

While good self-help material probably contains this message somewhere it is a nigh impossible task to sift through the tonnes of material in order to find this information. The point is all the issues have to be pushed at the same time. That includes inner game, but also includes pushing yourself socially.
Author:  Jinx88 [ Sat Aug 14, 2010 2:55 pm ]
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some amazing and inspirational points man... thanks for sharing i wish you luck in the game :)
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