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| Author: | johnx2 [ Tue Apr 20, 2010 3:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | self acceptance and complacency? |
Some key inner game aims seem to be to love yourself/accept yourself and become non-needy. However if you reach that state how do you avoid become complacent? There is no point to improve yourself when you love yourself and accept yourself. Also if you accept your current level of women and are non-needy how do you motivate yourself to get better? You have to have some dissatisfaction with your current life and some level of neediness to be able to push yourself out of your comfort zone and improve, surely? |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Tue Apr 20, 2010 9:05 pm ] |
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You also have to accept that you are not perfect and that this is ok. That doesnt mean that you stop the feeling that it would be nice to improve. Even if you love yourself (which I think is a strange way to say it) and accept that you are good enough for every single person on this planet, that doesnt mean that it is wrong of you to try to become even better, maybe that is what makes you so good. Someone said that a guy isnt judged by what he has achieved in life but by what he plans to do. That is a measure of his driving force, his competence and his attitude. That is attractive. I see my best quality as the fact that I am ready to search myself without question and realistically see the character flaws I have, admit them and do something about them. It takes a strong man to fight others but an insanely strong man to fight himself. |
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| Author: | Punchl!ne [ Wed Apr 21, 2010 11:45 pm ] |
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I agree with Ezo. You can always strive to become better. That's my driving force. Also, I have a list of things to do in my life. There's a big difference between loving yourself and thinking you're perfect. I usually talk about myself in third person and refers to "The MOST perfect man alive", which is generally taken light-heartedly and very well. I never say I'm perfect, I say I'm the most perfect. And I believe this myself. I didn't do it before, but I've proven to myself that I can always go forward and pick myself up when I hit a brick wall. |
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