I read some materials saying that the main reason men today lack self confidence in not only dealing with women but also in everyday life is because we were not properly initiated to becoming real adult men. We lack understanding in what it means to be men. We were also not psychologically and physically conditioned to be men.
Because we did not participate in any rites of passage initiating us into manhood, we are psychologically and physically unprepared and unsure in our status as men. This is the root leading to our lack of self confidence.
Some of you may have read about traditional rites of passage for men in some communities. This was meant to initiate boys into manhood. It does really make sense in many ways. Read this: Penis Enlargement and Native Tradition
David DeAngelo has also given a talk about this (ref - video Man Transformation)
What do you think guys ? Feedback appreciated.
