Ok, heres an exercise for you.
Think of a gorgeous women you conversed with or have seen recently. Really think about her. Visualize everything about her.
Now, think of how sexual this gorgoeus woman is. Cause women are really sexual. Women have UNBELIEVABLE sexual fantasies.
Now, think of the unbelievable sexual fantasies she had about YOU. Imagine last night her taking a bubble bath getting her out of her bubble bath and having a vibrator named (Your name). Imagine her using that vibrator on herself and fantasizing about you.
So, when you go up to a woman think of her vibrating like crazy about YOU the night before.
Why does this exercise work? Well, 1. It gets rid of all aproach anxiety. 2. Whos got the power now? YOU got the power. 3. She doesnt have the power because she masturbates about you. She THINKS about YOU at night.
So, when you walk over up to her and think of her doing that just like that you are way more confident than you were before because you actually visualise her masturbating about you. Wanting you. Fantasizng about you.
Personally, I havent tried this out yet but will definitely.
Let me know if this helped
Peacee