Ive been thinking the other day, how Mafia works.
When a guy starts in a mafia, he starts from ground up. He starts as a regular soldier, fighting and stealing, killing and beating for a few bucks. This is called, getting your bones.
Than, after a while, a member can be "made" and becomes a member of a family. Now he is protected. And than, he can become a capo, a leader of a small group of people, on a minor jobs.
Than, after years of work and making deals, a member can be promoted into a don. Than he is in charge. And when he becomes the don, he doesnt need to go out and kill people, he doesnt need to fight anymore, he doesnt need to steal. He doesnt need to do anything with his hands anymore. He uses his head now and does the big deals, the multi milion dollars deals.
Now, how does this relate to pick up?
You tell me.
When somebody is starting to learn pick up, what are the first thing he needs to learn?
The techniques.
He needs to go out and approach women, he needs to get his social skills better and better.
And at the start, he gets the ugly chicks, maybe disfunctional dependant messed up type of women. Than, as he grow experience, he notices, that he can basicly approach any girl and get her talking with him.
And he gets promoted. He than starts to approach higher quality women, women that have their life together.
Than, he starts to have relationships, and he gets promoted to another level.
And at the ultimate level, when he becomes the don, he can walk up to any club and have women approach him. He doesnt need to follow women arround and chase them, he has all the action he wants and he shows it.
He has his life together and "scoring" is not scoring anymore. He doesnt treat women the same as before. Now they look better. He looks through them like he is looking through a window. He can see her sadness, dissapointement.
Than he gets reffered as natural.
But what he really did was, he found the simplicity in complexity as buckminister fuller would say and became a person.. rather than a guy who wants to pick up chicks. (got that from david d.
)You probably know this formula-- E=mc2
This is what einstein figured out after all of his life of resarching and thinking.
And do you know how many years of debating and testing people did before him?
A lot.
For a simple, goddamn formula of 3 letters and one number.
Complexity to simplicity.
But the fact is, if they wouldnt had that debates.. for all those years.. than he wouldnt come to a realization of a simple formula.
Just like a soldier has to go through all of the shit, a newbie pickup artist has to go through all of techniques and approaching and rejection.. to come to a simple answer.
A simple formula.
A simple way.
What is it? Thats for you to find out.
You cant jump to the don right away, you need to be a soldier first. And you need to do what a soldier does.