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Author:  desertfox565 [ Tue Oct 13, 2009 10:28 am ]
Post subject:  My beliefs, that I think that I need help to fix
Hey guys,

This month marks my one year in game. I have grown and changed so much, though I'm still not the guy who's in full control of my dating life. There are times that I see a beautiful girl and didn't approach her because of excuses that I made inside my head. Yet I learned fast, if only I practiced more just like all of you guys do, I'd become much much better.

Now this could be funny, yet might be a common problem. Before I had game, I enjoy my life. I go out, I hang out with friends, live normal yet AFC lifestyle. I had no game and no girls. After I learned the game, I became afraid to go out there! Because I know, out there I will meet beautiful girls that I HAVE to approach. If I don't approach, I will feel like shit and start to beat myself about it. Yet, my AA stops me from doing so. Now this happens to moving sets. To seated sets, girls that I meet in party, I have little AA. But for moving sets or mixed sets, I stay away from them as far as I could. That's why I still had so few girls now, just around 3 or 4.

Belief 1: If I go out and see the girl I like and don't approach, you're a loser. You're a keyboard jockey.

Does this belief needs to be changed into "You can go out and enjoy the time with your friends or alone, without talking to the girls you like. You just need to go out, rather than staying at home, it's still better that way."

This is the first belief that came out from my head at the moment.

What do you guys think?

Best pal,
Steven ;)
Author:  Black Phantom [ Wed Oct 14, 2009 1:52 am ]
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Ok so lets play with this a little bit.

Its not a big deal of a belief. It is what I call an Invented Belief, as you invented it yourself in the actual game.

If we go a little bit deeper into your psyche and play a magical doctor, I think that a lot of us made a huge amount of pressure on I gotta go and approach.

I think that you have matured to a new level. Now you have to let yourself grow again.

You have reached a point where you have no hang ups about meeting girls so now, you can tone it down a little bit.

Why, you may ask?

Well its very nice that you can see a girl that you like, and go approach her. Now, let yourself evolve to the next level that is.. I enjoy my life, I enjoy your company.

I think that you are at a level where you dont have to struggle anymore to approach a girl.

A lot of guys get carried away with the idea of the pick up, that they literary forget their life and who they are. They forget what they enjoy and how to enjoy what they enjoy.

You are now at the point, where you need to rethink the path of your life. So think about who do you want to be, and how do you want to look like. When you get this handled, you can raise the quality of your life.

It is time to transform yourself into a real man. You are really at that point. So figure out how to do it.
Author:  osa [ Wed Oct 14, 2009 9:38 pm ]
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I'm no expert, but I say, if you dont want to approach while you're out there living your life, don't approach. Its your life..PUA skills are supposed to enhance your, not make you a slave to them
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