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Author:  magnum45 [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 9:20 am ]
Post subject:  Can you help someone better than you?
So I consider myself better off than most of this "community".

I was here in the past and I have learned over the last 2 years of my life. I have faced my challenges head on and I have learned the meaning of my life.

That puts me about everyone on this forum that searches for sex and HOT girls as validation.

My question:

I am supremely confidant and talkative in all situations. I am myself and I know who I am.

Is it O.K. to let a girl go when she doesn't accept me for being me?

Tonight I went to a party and I noticed a girl. I was just being friendly and I could tell she was uncomfortable talking with me. She was spacy and not intresting. She acted like she had mean things to say, but was refraining from saying them.

We were talking and the girls where just laughing and laughing. I was being my normal funny self, but soon after they said we are not laughing because of you it is an inside joke. I asked "what is the joke" then they are like well we are not laughing because of you. My friend said some stupid comment like magnum is great and we deserve to know. Then she said like "I don't mean to be rude but who are you?"

After a while I pretended like me and my friend had an inside joke. And I laughed so loud and abnoxious. She imdeitaly left me. I continued to laugh with my friend, and she eyed me out of her perifial vision.

She left like 30 mins later and I ignored her the whole time.

First of all. I didn't do anything wrong. There are no rules to social interactions. Only opinions. I didn't do anythign wrong you duchebags that think I did.

What I felt was that she was offending me though. I felt like she considered me some kind of pick up artist, and it pissed me off.

OMG I am ashamed to be a PUA.

How the fuck can I fix this? How can I be O.K.

After I am no longer a PUA, how do I convince the stupid dumb fucking girls that I am not a PUA. Because you fucking assholes have ruined my imagine.

--magnum45
Author:  Exerio [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 9:56 am ]
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No, you are not better. You are a narrow-minded, dumb and mean guy who treat women like objects and have self-confidence issues that you take out on the other people here by always being negative, no matter what. That is my honest opinion of you, and I believe more people here is sharing that exact view.

Now, over to the question:
Yes, it is possible. First of all, you can never rate anyone as better, you can only rate a skill from that person as better, e.g. opening a set in this situation. However, the first thing is always realizing that you have a problem. Being blind to all suggestions is moronic, learn to be critical, but open for changes. Now, before you do that I do not wish to help you.

- Exerio
Author:  magnum45 [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 10:27 am ]
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If I offended you it is because what i say hurts you because there is a grain of truth in it. If you were self confident you wouldn't care if I thought I was better than you, which I am. Sorry to hurt your feelings.
Author:  Grape [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 3:29 pm ]
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haaaaaaaaaaaaa. egooooooooooooooo.



anyways.. you simply have no idea what's happening do you??
It's right in front of you.

You simply could were not the kind of guy that they liked. Simple.

Become a funnier and more interesting person. Become a friend before going any further. You want to establish good relationships with them. And AFTER you are friends, THEN escalate sexually.


<33.
p.s. you are far from "better than this community" =]]] sorry to be a dick, you brought it upon yourself.
Author:  Emiliooooh! [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 6:37 pm ]
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How about not being a self-righteous dick? We're open to new ideas and becoming better people, and yet you judge us, and then ask us for help? Ha!
Author:  David~ [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 8:28 pm ]
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I wish I had a baseball bat so I could fuck you in the ass with it. I love you that much.
Author:  wildchild [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 9:00 pm ]
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*cracks his knuckles*
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So I consider myself better off than most of this "community".
Then the fuck are you posting here?
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I was here in the past and I have learned over the last 2 years of my life. I have faced my challenges head on and I have learned the meaning of my life.
Then why the fuck are you posting here?
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That puts me about everyone on this forum that searches for sex and HOT girls as validation.
...huh?
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My question:

I am supremely confidant and talkative in all situations. I am myself and I know who I am.

Is it O.K. to let a girl go when she doesn't accept me for being me?
Do you feel its ok? The fact your even posting this, here, today, suggests you don't.
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Tonight I went to a party and I noticed a girl. I was just being friendly and I could tell she was uncomfortable talking with me. She was spacy and not intresting. She acted like she had mean things to say, but was refraining from saying them.

We were talking and the girls where just laughing and laughing. I was being my normal funny self, but soon after they said we are not laughing because of you it is an inside joke. I asked "what is the joke" then they are like well we are not laughing because of you. My friend said some stupid comment like magnum is great and we deserve to know. Then she said like "I don't mean to be rude but who are you?"
Aaaand now we're starting to get to the real meat of why he's here folks. He got laughed at while 'being himself', feels embarressed, and thats apparently our fault?

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After a while I pretended like me and my friend had an inside joke. And I laughed so loud and abnoxious. She imdeitaly left me. I continued to laugh with my friend, and she eyed me out of her perifial vision.
Girls love drama - amongst them, the resulting conversation is a major bonding experience. They were positioning you to be the supplier of said Drama, and by reacting hostially, you provided.

What did you want by this point? If her actions have put you off, fine. Walk away. Fuck it. Take a breather. Enjoy your night. Don't rise to it.

And if you did want to get to know her still, well, switch gears. What your doing isn't working. Go away, talk to people, enjoy the rest of the place. (Call it social proof, call it 'having fun', whatever.) She'll see you and begin to think that maybe your not a creep. Bingo. You've earnt your second shot. Unless your actually a creep, of course.

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She left like 30 mins later and I ignored her the whole time.

First of all. I didn't do anything wrong. There are no rules to social interactions. Only opinions. I didn't do anythign wrong you duchebags that think I did.

What I felt was that she was offending me though. I felt like she considered me some kind of pick up artist, and it pissed me off.
I'm confused. You say that you were not running game or whatever you think PUA's do, but you are pissed because you think she thought you were a PUA. If you weren't 'gaming' then she obviously wasn't thinking that.. And if you were and she picked up, well, ok. It didn't work. Chill. Nobody pulls every girl they meet - if they did it would get dull fast. That hope and anticipation are half the fun.
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OMG I am ashamed to be a PUA.
You just said you weren't one? If you don't want to be one, don't be one. Your choice mate.
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How the fuck can I fix this? How can I be O.K.
Stop asking a pickup forum how not to use pickup would be a good start? Relax. Be honest with yourself about what you want and who you want to be in life. Because, whatever you were trying to be with those girls, your reaction when it didn't work proves that you have some hangups about it.
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After I am no longer a PUA, how do I convince the stupid dumb fucking girls that I am not a PUA. Because you fucking assholes have ruined my imagine.

--magnum45
I hate to deflate your ego, but I am worried it will soon crush us all. I'm pretty sure your reputation doesn't preceed you, except with your immediate friends. I am certainly sure that 99.5% of your town a) Doesn't know who you are and B) doesn't give a shit.

And why the hell are you chasing 'stupid dumb fucking girls' anyway?
Author:  Emiliooooh! [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 9:36 pm ]
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*loud applause and cheers inserted here*
Author:  magnum45 [ Mon Sep 28, 2009 3:39 am ]
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I am perfect. It is your fault that you created this website and told me to get pussy.

I ignored the warnings. I can't be held responsible.

You should all be illegal.
Author:  Emiliooooh! [ Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:06 am ]
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I am perfect. It is your fault that you created this website and told me to get pussy.

I ignored the warnings. I can't be held responsible.

You should all be illegal.
Lmfao! Man, stop and say that out loud: "I ignored the warnings, I can't be held responsible." That's like saying, "I saw the cop, but i kept driving" and then when he finally pulls you over, "I can't be held responsible." You sir, are a dumbass... any microscopic morsel of pity I had for you just disintegrated. Here's why:

A: You are a socially/mentally inept putz.
Proof? Well, by the sounds of it, you needed to be told to like pussy. Man, that's sad... :cry:
(ps, congratulations for not accidently killing yourself yet. Most people as dumb as you have already jumped off buildings thinking they can fly)

B: Freedom of speech.
People can post whatever the hell they want on the internet. That's why it's here. If someone created a doomsday cult and told you to kill yourself, would you have ignored those warnings and killed yourself too? and then be writing them via possessed laptop?

C: Grow a set and take responsibility for your own actions and thoughts.
Not everyone has the terrible lack of judgement that you seem to suffer from. Perhaps a chemical imbalance? Consult your physician! :D

D: Man, illegal? Are you kidding me?
That shit won't realistically happen, unless China somehow takes over the world and creates a communist planet... But I honestly don't think that'll happen too soon, I mean, Asian Invasion? yeaa..... :roll:
No offence Chinese brothers! (but really, who would want to invade Canada anyways? lol)
Author:  magnum45 [ Mon Sep 28, 2009 8:30 am ]
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hahahaha
Author:  Black Phantom [ Mon Sep 28, 2009 11:25 pm ]
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All of you that are arguing with him...cmon?

The guy is bullshitting us guys, no way he can be so dumb.

After two years, he surely developed some kind of humor.

Anyways, have you noticed that all of you have jumped into correcting him immediately.

Do you correct people because you want to help them or because you want to show that you are important?

Do you think that correcting people and saying how wrong they are is something a fullfiled person would do?

Do you think, that maybe there is a need in all of us to correct somebody and by doing that making us feel important?

Great.

Do that more.

Guys, being a man is so much more than this. For a forum like this, where all the cool guys hang out, I would expect that you would make fun of this guy so it hurts.

Cmon guys, the guy is begging for it :D

And the best bust of the day goes to..? Post :D

see ya guys
Author:  AceofSpades07 [ Tue Sep 29, 2009 12:38 am ]
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wow this is one of the more fucked up threads that ive read in a while...but as always there is somthing to learn here haha. Does anyone else think they have any ideas how the community can start to effect how we look at the world down to even basic little things? good or bad
Author:  magnum45 [ Tue Sep 29, 2009 1:01 am ]
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wow this is one of the more fucked up threads that ive read in a while...but as always there is somthing to learn here haha. Does anyone else think they have any ideas how the community can start to effect how we look at the world down to even basic little things? good or bad
What?
Author:  magnum45 [ Tue Sep 29, 2009 1:06 am ]
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The guy is bullshitting us guys, no way he can be so dumb.

After two years, he surely developed some kind of humor.

Anyways, have you noticed that all of you have jumped into correcting him immediately.

Do you correct people because you want to help them or because you want to show that you are important?
Yea my last post was obviously a joke. Well I guess not so obvious.

They want to correct me so they can make sure of what they believe in to be true.

I like what John Stuart Mill says on the subject of free speech. Something to the effect of let every man speak openly and freely. Not only to provide a democracy, but also to allow any man to hear his own beliefs out loud, and in doing so, he may change his mind.

--Magnum45
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