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Author:  dietryin5 [ Tue Jun 02, 2009 6:52 am ]
Post subject:  beating myself up over this
Not sure where to post this put since it regards a confidence issue.

Anyway recently that honesty box application in facebook I just got a new comment from a girl saying WEEEIIRRRD.
So I go through the friends tab bin that app to see which girls have this and I notcied most of the girls I recently added to facebook through online sarging have this.

So now in my head I feel like a complete failure due to the fact I thought I was building something up and having success getting a few numbers, great conversations and having a fair understanding for the online aspect of the game. all this is gone now :(
Looks as if I still have lots to understand and learn about being one of those guys that are natural with women.
It would be great if i had more success in 2.5 months when I move to a bigger city

And I had a comment from a month ago from another girl saying this:

Your kinda ugly and full of yourself no wonder you cant get a girl..
Author:  Male Member [ Tue Jun 02, 2009 11:57 am ]
Post subject:  dont let the world pass you by
i dont really get what kind of answers you expect but heres my thoughts.
being called weird by a girl is not a good sign, but dont take it too serious. "full of yourself" on the other hand is serious and very bad.
heres how it works:
1. you notice something must be wrong with you cause life isnt how you want it to be especially with girls
2. you start "working" on your problems which often means spending time thinking about yourself
3. people somehow notice things from your facebook messages that hint the spending time thinking about yourself thing BUT
4. they dont know that it is actually NEGATIVE thoughts you have about yourself, that you acknowledge your mistakes, a quality that is if anything then noble. so they assume that youre "full of yourself" = you dont care about them and stand in front of a mirror half of your waking hours

advice: try not to let info slip through about your personal development in front of your targets. a natural doesnt think about his issues while approaching a woman so not doing this brings you closer to being natural.
talk/ask about them (a natural is interested in his target) or about your experiences (past or present, it just has to be something on the outside) IF they show signs of interest. no stupid smalltalk (->LJBF), i mean really occupy your mind with what you are dealing with (topic of conversation) instead of yourself.
Author:  High Def [ Fri Jun 19, 2009 2:20 am ]
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This might be obvious, but does your facebook profile itself have anything that might convey that image to them? That is to say, do you say like as your About Me: I'm the man and everyone should know it? Or for your interests its not something weird like earwax or something stupid like that
Author:  Hasim [ Fri Jun 19, 2009 6:11 am ]
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Have you ever met these girls?


If not and its only online then dont give a toss. Get out there and do it face to face.
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