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| Author: | coldtrain [ Fri May 22, 2009 11:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How do you rule a social circle? |
I'm a senior at high school, and its really hard to get *cool people to ask me to hang out. I've never been able to be "wanted" by my peers. I think this is really affecting my inner game, and is causing me to make excuses for myself or think of the worst case scenario for each slightly negative text i get from a girl. even though im not supposed to think that way, i cant help but to think that way because of my social failures. With college coming up, im questioning who i honestly am... My interests are few and spreadout... so far its really swimming/working out, sarging, and a few computer games lol I'm asian, but i dont think that matters |
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| Author: | Jlax [ Sat May 23, 2009 2:50 am ] |
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The key to ruling any social circle is to be in control and confident in what your doing and saying. Your inner game has a big part of it. If you change the way you act and think then YOU will be your circle. What I mean by that is that YOU will be the leader/alpha and everyone in your circle will start looking up to you and respecting you. You need to build a strong foundation and change your belief system. Right now you think that noone respects you and its hard for people to respect you if you think you dont deserve to be respected. I had inner game issues too. Now their fading away. Fading away that I dont think about the past anymore but think ahead of my time. Think of the future. The past is the past and you can start thinking of the present and the future. What do you think its gonna take for you to be the life of the party, the alpha, the leader. Very strong inner game and belief system. Oncde you master this you WILL be respected you will be admired and most of all people will look up to you. Look at my solution to all your inner game problems thread. Read it and start making up your mind if you really want to have success in life. I wish you the best of luck bro. if you have any questions just PM me i'll help you with your inner game. Not that im some inner game guru but ive been trhough the same thing your going through and completely changed my attitude and now I have SUCESS in my life. the-solution-to-all-your-inner-game-pro ... 45532.html |
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| Author: | Roobosh [ Sat May 23, 2009 9:35 pm ] |
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i cant stress this enough but dont be needy |
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| Author: | Slowburner [ Mon May 25, 2009 7:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you rule a social circle? |
Quote: I'm a senior at high school, and its really hard to get *cool people to ask me to hang out.
Hey guy. feel for you.I've never been able to be "wanted" by my peers. ... I'm asian, but i dont think that matters Firstly just try and reverse the situation. Ask people to hang out instead of waiting. Second, ask yourself why you are wanting cool people. Is it to feel good about yourself by proxy. Why not become a unique version of cool! Thirdly ask yourself why do you have to feel wanted by your peers. Why are they better than you? What makes them superior? Lastly you mention your race but say it doesn't matter. There's a reason you wrote it. Dig into yourself. You feel it does matter for some reason. It kind of implies some racial division thing |
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| Author: | Jlax [ Wed May 27, 2009 5:41 pm ] |
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Dude srry bout that whole lecture on ruling a social circle lol. Honestly I didnt read the whole topic just the subject line. I feel you man about the slightly negative text from a girl thing. I can totally relate. Im gonna make a guess but you probably think that you dont deserve to talk to gorgeous girls and when you think they do you think the "cool" people put her up for it to make it a joke. Your not the only one man. I had the same problem before and it is OVERCOMABLE. Bro it seems like you need to work on your confidence and the way you get into the flow of things. Youve probably read some of my inner game posts about the Derek VItalios deep inner game and honestly I think that can be your solution bro. If you dont change your beliefs its a 100% MB guarantee. If you dont got the money then I understand man. This is probably your best bet. Changed up the way I see things now. Good luck bro |
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| Author: | Redkid [ Thu Jun 04, 2009 2:22 pm ] |
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I know what you mean bro. At first i thought exactly like that. If your already texting these girls, then ask them to hang out, start building some attraction. Start asking your guy friends to hangout n shit. You're probably not told about when something is going on with your circle often. Start forming your OWN circle, get the people who YOU think will be worth investing time in. You'll start realizing people will come out to ask you to hang out with them. It's worked for me. I made my own circle of friends, and this friend of mine who was alpha in my old group of friends became beta. Now im alpha, in a way i took over. About the you being asian thing dont sweat it. girls love buff asian guys lmao. I mean my background is colombian, but i look kinda asian though. But i notice it sorta gives me more of an upperhand then other guys. Good luck. Just work on that confidence and dont overthink so much. I know its hard. Remember start organizing things with people. |
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