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Author:  VoodooChild_tic [ Fri Mar 06, 2009 1:30 am ]
Post subject:  Follow your lust

NOTE: I wrote this article awhile ago for another forum, so I just copy pasted it here.
It is especially meant for those guys who game women but don't feel anything...enjoy!

Follow your lust

This might seem strange to some people on here but I think it's something important that I should point out.
You see, we tell you guys to go out and sarge everyday and approach allot of sets, but this is meant only for the beginning phases.
The whole idea of this "over-sarging" is to get rid of your fear or rejection, learn the game and develop your optimum style based on what works for you and what not. In this phase, you don't really sarge out of lust or any extra ordinary attraction to a girl, but simply out of "statistics" that's all. It's just another set you opened, another girl you closed and another experience for you.
The idea is that after a while of random approaching and closing you develop more and get to a point where you can read situations very well and will simply use you're seduction skills after you're lust hast pointed out for you what you want. It's a tool to satisfying you're lust or desire to women or being wanted. And we help you to shape and perfect that tool and support you in training it, but after all, it's still a tool.

I would view the process as something like this:
Shaping the tool> learning the game and analyzing stuff, viewing everything as sets. targets, pawns etc
Using the tool to satisfy you're desires

I realized this when I was chasing girls while on vacation without any particular reason. And there were to extreme opposites> 1 Russian hot girl that REALLY turned me on and 1 dutch girl that was really beautiful. And I seduced them both and the feeling was so different. With the Russian one that got me so turned on I was really going berserk on her out of horniness while with the dutch girl the only thought I had in mind was "ha! another hot girl!" but that was it. She didn't turn me on enough or got me going crazy in my head or floating in air for days. She was just a statical count on my list of women.
And when I came back I realized that I was dating some women simply out of feeding my ego and statistical count and realized I was doing it all wrong. I shouldn't be thinking "Ha! I'm making out with yet another girl!" I should be going crazy like a dog out of lust and really feel the need to be with her, not just being a calculating guy that follows all the rules of the game. But simply being aroused by a girl first, then use my skills to get her and then let my lust take over once again.

So in a way I dumbed down my game, shut down allot of thoughts while dealing with women and just follow my lust which always steers you in the right direction and with the right amount of skills you can get whatever your lust is pointing at.

That said, I started writing this article after reading so many post about people asking what to do next or if a certain girl likes them etc etc and also trough Jerdo who later pointed out that the game has become a statistical, almost computerized game in which you chase women for all the wrong reasons. You will need to get out that phase and only start chasing something if you really desire it, not because you want to have 10 fuck closes by the end of the year or simply lose your virginity before you're 18 or whatever.

Do what feels right!




BTW, another small note, I would compare seduction skills to shooting skills.
For example, when you are starting out, you get an uzi, go somewhere with about a hundred bullets (approaches) and start firing randomly. You will miss allot and this is normal, since you still have to learn to shoot, know how bullets react to different kinds of winds etc (different situations, like night clubs or coffee shops). So you're still shooting widely and in this phase it's normal to get excited if you finally hit a target (closed someone).
Eventually, after months of practice and getting different results you will know your weapon and target and all the variables that can effect your results MUCH better. And will be shooting less but FAR more accurate.
You'll be like one shot kill sniper :D

About 2 years ago I would go to a club or any other place and approach like mad and my odds used to be about one number for every eight approaches. Something I was happy with back then and I didn't care much about rejections since I got rejected allot.
Now I know my stuff much better and usually don't make more then two approaches (not even really approaches anymore, more like interactions with females) a week and almost always successfully close (not always f-close though, some times I stay stuck at making out). So I 'shoot' allot less and only fire if I see something I really want and then use my skills I've acquired in the past trough firing hundreds of bullets and make a one shot kill So I'm a lot pickier now and only fire when I really get excited by a girl or woman.
One drawback though, you will forget how it feels like to miss and you're thick skin will start to get soft again. So yeah, now I can't take rejections as well as in my beginning phase. Snipers are always surprised when they miss haha.

OK that's my post, give my ideas some thought :D :D :D :D

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