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Author:  extremo [ Thu Feb 12, 2009 3:11 am ]
Post subject:  Giving Advice And SElfsteem to someone
How would you give some selfsteem to someone, or at least some confidence in himself?

I am asking this because a friend is a really cool guy, but he feel that he is not prepare to kiss his girlfriend ( they have being dating for 3 month...) adn she ask me to make him do it... What do you recomend me, i think that he need more self steem.... My other thought is that he is insecure because he has never done it before, so i was wondering if show him hwo to do it right, would help him/... ( I mean,. i kiss a girl in fron of him and tell him how to do it, what to do and what he should try to eliminate..., and the girl opinon of how she feels and that stuffs...)
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Thu Feb 12, 2009 7:15 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Giving Advice And SElfsteem to someone
Quote:
How would you give some selfsteem to someone, or at least some confidence in himself?

I am asking this because a friend is a really cool guy, but he feel that he is not prepare to kiss his girlfriend ( they have being dating for 3 month...) adn she ask me to make him do it... What do you recomend me, i think that he need more self steem.... My other thought is that he is insecure because he has never done it before.
Maybe you should ask HIM why he hasn't kissed her yet and see what he
says about it.

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If he's never kissed a girl before and he is in fact nervous about screwing it
all up... then he has nothing to worry about.

Just tell him to go up to her and tell her this:

"I don't know how you like to be kissed. Teach me how you like to be
kissed so it is good for both of us babe."
(he leans in to make the initial move for the kiss and she takes the lead)

"I want to kiss you so bad right now, it's just that... I don't know the
way you like to be kissed. I will let you lead the way."
(he leans in to make the initial move for the kiss and she takes the lead)

These are just a few pointers that you can tell him to do. Give him the
lines so he can practice them.

The lines were given if he is in fact nervous because he don't know how
to kiss a girl or is scared.

As for self-esteem...

You want to make people feel good about what they have done.

Give sincere praise to them without sounding fake, or sounding like you
are sarcastic when you praise them.

There is a whole lot more about boosting self-esteem in others, if you do
a search like this: boost others self-esteem I am sure you will get
a few results that you can read up on.
Author:  extremo [ Thu Feb 12, 2009 9:19 pm ]
Post subject: 
okman thanks
Author:  nightrider767 [ Tue Feb 17, 2009 6:33 am ]
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Leprechuan is right on.

As a side note... Maybe he's just slow to jump in the pool. If the girl really wants to kiss him so bad, why don't you tell her to get him in some private spot, ask for a kiss, pucker up and dive in?
Author:  extremo [ Tue Feb 17, 2009 8:21 pm ]
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i did that but she just sya that she is not going to take the initiative and that she have never been with someone so inexperienced.....
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Wed Feb 18, 2009 4:56 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
i did that but she just sya that she is not going to take the initiative and that she have never been with someone so inexperienced.....
Ouch. LOL

Your friend really needs to step up then. Tell him to either step up and kiss
her and make out with her already, otherwise she IS GOING TO LEAVE HIM
high and dry.

If he don't do something with her, and you think she is attractive, why don't
you show him how it's done AFTER they break up?

My friends and I have a "brotherhood pat" where we don't date others ex-girlfriends.

If you and your friends don't have this same "pat", then I would highly
recommend that you show him how it is done either with this same girl
after she leaves his ass, or you show him how it's done by using your
own girlfriend as the "test dummy".
Author:  extremo [ Wed Feb 18, 2009 10:23 pm ]
Post subject: 
he finally did it but was kind of sad.. i mean was some4thing like no more than a couple seconds and he was really nervous. But is better than nothing, he is more confident now.

And i agree with you, I dont touch or game the girls of my friends or Ex gf I did it once and the results were not really good. I always say to myself the girls pass, but the friends remind XD
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Wed Feb 18, 2009 11:28 pm ]
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Quote:
he finally did it but was kind of sad.. i mean was some4thing like no more than a couple seconds and he was really nervous. But is better than nothing, he is more confident now.
At least he got the kiss, now he just has to escalate that and do more kissing
and other shit with her since you said that she said (he said/she said LOL)
that she has been with "experienced" guys already in the past.
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