I'd like to tell a story of pick up that happened to me nearly ten years ago. In high school I had no knowledge of the community and really no idea of what to do with women. I was 15, horny, inexperienced, and worst of all shy. I was working 35 hours a week at a fast food resturant trying to pay off my lexus. Keep in mind I was basically a social retard at this point in my life. I had this manager (Todd) he was a smart ass and flirted well with women (very C&F). One day he confronted me and made some smart ass remarks so I dissed him back. All crew members looked at us at the time because I was usually so quiet. I started to get to know the guy and build rapport with him and the other managers. I soon got promoted to supervisor. I had an epiphany when I took a leadership position at the store: "I really don't like doing what others tell me to do, I'm much better at telling others what to do." I was taking a lunch in back room one day when one of the girls I had been flirting with (C&F) and really being an asshole to came back and sat on my lap. She was a 7.5. I started dating her and of course came down with oneitis. Somewhere around the middle of our relationship she made the comment: "At first I really didn't want to be with you because of our age gap. At work, one of the things that really attracted me was everyone there always wanted to follow you. They act like you and sometimes even mimick you." I didn't say anything, I really didn't know what to say. The point I'm trying to make is now that I'm in the community and have a much deeper understanding of social behavior and human psychology I realized women get wet for tribal leaders and it is the best DHV money can't buy. I was some supervisor chode at a fast food place, DHV'd, built rapport, established social proof without anything. These skills are hard wired in us men just like women's reproduction defense mechanisms.
I would like to close with a theory of mine that I thought of after watching DeAngelo's 'Mastery with Women.' He talked about how mothers teach their sons to be nice to women and basically give them what they want and do what will set you up for failure with women. I know this sounds crazy but, I believe that mothers who have sons are hard wired to teach them these things so we, as becoming men are forced to develop real ways to attract women. Our mothers are testing us and if we fail with women our whole lives then we have failed as men and for nature's sake it was better that our seed wasn't spread. Our mothers don't want their sons to reproduce if we're too weak to effectively crack the code and attract women on our own. This is what I believe is nature's ultimate test. I look forward to everyone's feedback.
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