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Author:  FNB [ Wed Dec 10, 2008 11:52 pm ]
Post subject:  How important is inner game?
I have understood that to have a strong self-confidence, self-esteem and not being shy is what inner game is all about. Could it be that to have a strong inner game is the most important thing there is in the entire game. I think inner game is even more important than looks or outer game. Could this really be true?
Author:  nermob [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 12:14 am ]
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i would say yes. ive only started learning this pua stuff recently but im already beginning to see the power of inner game. but i think inner and outer game feed off each other and must be developed simultaneously.
Author:  Carbon24 [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 2:10 am ]
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if you look good and you know you look good it helps
but inner game when used properly will effect your entire life
people will gravitate to you and you just become better
Author:  nermob [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 6:40 am ]
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inner game is like a dormant magnet inside me that im just now learning to turn on.

confidence can at first be outwardly simulated by learning what c/f, push-pull, and other non-needy behavior looks like and imitating it, but once you start to experience success and follow good advice on working your inner game, that confidence becomes real and those behaviors come more naturally. fake it till you make it!

and now that you feel good about yourself and you begin to properly project that, people of both sexes will be attracted to you in every situation in life. people will smile and nod at you more as they walk past you at the mall. your boss will respect you more. you'll be carded less when buying alcohol. the old lady at the grocery checkout will even be nicer to you. etc. and of course the whole success with women thing goes without saying. :)
Author:  com.solo [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 7:04 am ]
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Inner game is basically confidence and self esteem.

Confidence can be faked... (kinda like forcing yourself to have balls). But after enough success because of the fake confidence, you'll grow more confident.

Thus Outer Game creates good Inner game, which in turn leads to better outer game.
Author:  FNB [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 12:29 pm ]
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I have been asked to work as a model and done a little of it as well... So therefore I can attract SHB 9s and 10s without so much effort or negs. The last girl that I was dating was actually an SHB actress. So looks get you far but when she noticed that I don't have so much inner game to go with the looks she became sad and I know why. We don't see each other anymore. So the lesson from all of this was that great looks get you far but inner game combined with looks would be heaven on earth... ;) So I need to get alpha lifestyle and real natural game. This is why I say like CX that inner game is the most effective tool in the game. The inner game is as I see it even more important than looks and outer game.
Author:  smartass [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 11:07 pm ]
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Inner game is by FAR the single most important key to PU or attraction in general.

It doesn't matter what you look like or who you are. If you think you're a loser, you are a loser. If you think you are a GOD, you are a GOD.

I'd also like to take this opportunity to point out that women don't like losers. Actually, people in general, don't like losers. :lol:
Author:  russianbear [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 11:54 pm ]
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Inner game is the game.
Author:  Chinaski [ Fri Dec 12, 2008 5:41 am ]
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Without inner game the pua is just a shell, easliy cracked.
Author:  Zarathustra [ Fri Dec 12, 2008 8:31 am ]
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all men who are successful with women have one thing in common

it's not looks
or money
or the Cube
or a nice personality
or brains
or a cool car
or a cool job
or big muscles
or attention grabbing clothes

it's confidence
Author:  Stormy [ Fri Dec 12, 2008 5:46 pm ]
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Inner game makes everything easier.

There is no approach anxiety. There is no escalation anxiety. You don't run out of things to say. Every problem you can think of just ceases to be a problem. Congruence tests? You don't even register them as such because you PASS them without even THINKING about it because you ARE congruent.

Good inner game means you do what you want and it's attractive. You become game.
Author:  sorin93 [ Sat Dec 13, 2008 1:14 am ]
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Inner game makes everything easier.

There is no approach anxiety. There is no escalation anxiety. You don't run out of things to say. Every problem you can think of just ceases to be a problem. Congruence tests? You don't even register them as such because you PASS them without even THINKING about it because you ARE congruent.

Good inner game means you do what you want and it's attractive. You become game.
holy shit, what you just said is GOLD. good description 8)
Author:  The Big Bad Wolf [ Sat Dec 13, 2008 1:19 am ]
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If you focus only on outer game, you will have a social mask
With focus on inner game you construct that which goes underneath the mask.

with both ?
you have the ability to put on the best show for the occasion, not fearing that someone might see what's behind the mask because you know it's solid.

I focus on inner game... the masks, specially constructed for each type of woman or social situation, can come after, if ever at all.

The Outer Game can be a way of helping build the inner, but Ultimately it's the Inner Game you're seeking.
The Beliefs and confidence that they're all looking for in men.

Hope you dig metaphors ^^
Author:  madals [ Sat Dec 13, 2008 10:17 am ]
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You can learn to make attraction. Inner game attraction is always there.
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