This is directed at the more experienced pua's out there, who have managed to hook themselves up with girlfriends friends and maintain mltrs.
I know it's a problem many of you don't bother to burden yourself with, but i've always been the 'respectable' type, i do really well with the women when i delve outside my normal social circle. (Because I can be perceived differently without being judged etc.) My closer circle, however, (a pretty big one at that) i've always shied away from picking up women in their vicinity, because that's not how they've always seen me. So sort of like, leading a double life.
The reason i'm asking for assistance here is because i'm afraid of being judged of being a male whore/slut (i mentioned multiple gfs to a few female friends, when the label came up and made me feel preeetty uncomfortable!!)
So my question to you guys is, is that a problem any of you had to deal with? A change of perspective from friend's point of view? And how did you deal with being labelled or did you even consider that?
One of the things to me is that my reputation is really important. Is the trade off worth it in the long run? I.e. having massive threesomes/orgies with many different women in exchange for being labelled something you might not want to be by close friends.
Weird question, perhaps?
anyway, i'd appreciate some real advice/opinions. Thanks to all. Cheers