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Author:  c_n12 [ Sat May 24, 2008 7:32 pm ]
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VERY WELL SAID! I truly applaud you for this post!

This is one of the truest posts that I have read on this site from someone who obviously hasn't allowed the fiancially obsessed gurus to brainwash them and I think this is something commuinty really needs to understand; women are far easier to talk to than guys and it doesn't really matter what you say to them as long as you know how to be congruent and present yourself confidently. This is where the ethics of using the decietful Mystery Method clashes with the direct philosophies of being able to express your real self in a way women respect that allows you to not have to worry about what they think and not have to analyze every move you make to keep up the image of a person who not you. When people realize this they no longer need to clone someone else's personality or behavior to attract women and it becomes second nature.

Unfortunatley the most trusted members of the commuinty are fully aware that if the community found out pick-up could be easy and didn't require a $6000 bootcamp to master they wouldn't be able to keep selling overpriced crap.

- Chris 8)
Author:  ugee [ Sun May 25, 2008 8:28 am ]
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SO TRUE!

I can totally relate. If your hypothesis is, true then the best is yet to come for me. Thanks!
Author:  Chiggs [ Sun Jun 01, 2008 5:52 am ]
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Good post. You got reps for that.
Author:  ResCogitans [ Sun Jun 08, 2008 4:35 pm ]
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Thats true, approaching girls is more difficult, but its esier relating to them.

Personaly, I find it really hard to socialize with guys I don't know at clubs and other venues and I think working on that could really improve my game, but it's scary for me.
Author:  c_n12 [ Sun Jun 08, 2008 8:41 pm ]
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Guys are easier to socialize with once you know them because your brain's function on a similar level but males are less prone to having full-on conversations with other guys they haven't met.

Girls on the other hand will stop on the street and talk with a stranger about anything even if it seems completely absurd.

- Chris 8)
Author:  chi [ Mon Jun 09, 2008 8:53 pm ]
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agreed, except for the sexist part lol
I think its just that girls are more talkative, is all. Its easy to spend time with guys but not talk to them. But in this context there is a huge difference between talking to them and taking them home.
Author:  bijou616 [ Tue Jun 10, 2008 11:14 am ]
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Great point man. I totally agree...although, it's not like all guys get so confident by college...It's just that the people on the forum have really worked on their inner game and have spent lots of time studying what to say to women...you have to take that into account to. But still, it's definitely much easier to talk to girls...
Author:  Killians [ Tue Jun 10, 2008 7:38 pm ]
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Ironic that you say this.

I am a girl and find it much easier to talk to guys over girls.
Author:  driftwood [ Fri Jun 13, 2008 6:14 pm ]
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I see what you are getting at and I have experienced some of what you say first hand but I think you're failing to take into account all those times when it's NOT easy for a man to talk to a woman. Maybe that's because the man lacks social confidence but it's such a common problem for men to have trouble talking to women that men have founded forums like this in part to address that issue. You said that the fact that there are no rules governing the interaction between men and women make is easier to interact but personally, I think I have trouble because there are no rules. You should expand upon your ideas to address all the difficulties men have dealing with women.
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