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| Author: | akrimony [ Sat Apr 08, 2017 4:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Small town inferiority complex |
Hi Guys, I'm from India, from a small town in it called Agra. For work I'm in the area surrounding the capital - Delhi - since 2010. However, I have this deep rooted inferiority complex in me that I'm not from Delhi. And when I hear people talk of themselves as "Delhites" and stuff I freak out. I dated an HB 8 from Delhi and she'd say I want to stay in Delhi all my life and how Delhi is an amazing city and wasn't really impressed with my travel stories (I've been to 8 countries and visit a country every year) it used to break my confidence. This is major trouble in my game because a majority of HBs are from Delhi and they have a bias towards Delhi guys and look at small towners with a bit of disgust. How do I deal with this? |
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| Author: | seductivepua [ Wed Apr 12, 2017 8:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Small town inferiority complex |
Women pick-up on your insecurity about it. I remember I was working in the USA at a carnival a few years back. My friends always told me when I approach a girl and she asked what I did, I should lie because people look down on Carnival workers. SO a man's sexual market value works like this: Ascribed: Looks, DNA, Tall vs short etc External: Money, status Learned: Social Skills You can see how this value is placed on the external (job, status etc) opposed to the Social Skills. So despite me working at the carnival(and telling them), I was still able to get SDL's and lays. You need to reframe that answer when they ask you and don't give a shit about what they say about your town's people. "Where are you from? Heaven I hope it helps. PM for any other problems, I'm happy to help! |
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| Author: | nyceboi [ Thu Apr 13, 2017 5:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Small town inferiority complex |
nothing to be ashamed because you are from a small town, if the chick/s care about that, leave, why you want a chick that care where you are from. |
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| Author: | akrimony [ Thu May 04, 2017 2:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Small town inferiority complex |
Quote: Women pick-up on your insecurity about it.
Thank you so much for this reply!!I remember I was working in the USA at a carnival a few years back. My friends always told me when I approach a girl and she asked what I did, I should lie because people look down on Carnival workers. SO a man's sexual market value works like this: Ascribed: Looks, DNA, Tall vs short etc External: Money, status Learned: Social Skills You can see how this value is placed on the external (job, status etc) opposed to the Social Skills. So despite me working at the carnival(and telling them), I was still able to get SDL's and lays. You need to reframe that answer when they ask you and don't give a shit about what they say about your town's people. "Where are you from? Heaven I hope it helps. PM for any other problems, I'm happy to help! My inner game has been shattered by this thing recently. There was a girl in my workplace already in a 6 year old relationship. I got the girl, she broke up with her boyfriend for me, we dated a year but she started showing disgust about my hometown and started saying she'd only live in Delhi and all. Ultimately she went back to her ex boyfriend who was a short guy with no personality but a Delhiite and owned a Mercedes. So this just shattered me! But, I'm going to deal with this for the next girls! Thank you! |
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| Author: | akrimony [ Thu May 04, 2017 2:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Small town inferiority complex |
Quote: nothing to be ashamed because you are from a small town, if the chick/s care about that, leave, why you want a chick that care where you are from.
But won't most of the HBs care about that because they'd be from metro cities?!
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