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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Sat Apr 18, 2015 6:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How To Be The Confident Sexy Motherf**** |
This is my personal journal of my path of learning to be good with women, going from a 100% introverted insecure wuss around women and people, to the confident sexy motherf**** today. In it, I captured my thoughts, lessons, missions and findings on my journey of becoming the freest and most confident version of myself. Enjoy! |
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Sat Apr 18, 2015 6:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How To Be The Confident Sexy Motherf**** |
HOW TO BE THE CONFIDENT SEXY MOTHERF**** MAKE IT A PROJECT Take 90 days to do this. Set a start date, and an end date by which you would like to have success with women. Make a commitment that in this time period, you are "Safe" to experiment, try things out, make a fool out of yourself, embarrass yourself, have people laugh at you. But it's only for 90 days. This has a strong psychological effect on you do not delay, but to take your journey of becoming confident seriously. GET A JOURNAL Get a journal like this, and in it write down your thoughts, observations and lesson. Pretend you're writing a book that you'll leave to your son and grandson and all the future generations, about how to get confident with women. DO 100% DURING THE JOURNEY Put full effort in this. You are AT IT, in 90 days you will be OUT of it. So use this time. Don't delay. APPROACHING WOMEN Start small. If you're really nervous, start by saying "Hi" to random women. You will probably feel very uncomfortable. Celebrate even the smallest success. If you say Hi to random girls, feel AWESOME because you've succeeded in doing that, and don't feel bad because you couldn't continue it. Build on success. Success breeds success. Start with saying Hi, and then move on to asking for directions. Just so you get comfortable. Once you get comfortable with asking for directions, move up to saying, "You know what, I don't really care about directions, I just saw you from over there and wanted to say hi" DON'T ASSUME REJECTION Women WANT to meet guys. If you are just HALF of a normal dude and at least OK dressed, nothing fancy just OK, women will want to meet you. STATE IS EVERYTHING Put yourself OUT of the NEEDY, INSECURE state and into a confident state. NEED FOR ACCEPTANCE AND LOVE Close your eyes and imagine the kind of women that you want, and imagine them accepting you and wanting you. Focus on the FEELING, and actually FEEL the woman's acceptance. Feel yourself accepted, loved. Enjoy the feeling for 5min each day. Some guys feel weird if a woman likes them. They don't know what to do. This will change your attitude when around women, and will make you more receptive to women actually liking you. |
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Sat Apr 18, 2015 6:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How To Be The Confident Sexy Motherf**** |
BELIEVE IN YOURSELF You have to believe in yourself. Believe that the qualities that you have as a guy is what women want. Believe that you have something that interests women. Don't shy away from the interaction just because you don't believe in yourself. STAY IN THERE. If you believe you've got something, women will too. How you feel is what you'll project. ATTACK YOUR FEARS AND YOUR UNCOMFORT When you feel uncomfortable about doing something, and you know it would be a good idea to do it, DO IT. Don't shy away from uncomfort. It is your ENEMY during this process. Make a posted note and put it on your mirror - My COMFORT is my ENEMY. Set a DAILY goal of the amount of women you will talk to, and do it. I recommend you set a goal of 3 women +. Minimum is 3, if you do more that's great. GET INTO STATE Can't emphasise the state enough. State is EVERYTHING. Raise your energy through meditation, music, exercise. Be careful to what you eat - heavy food will affect your state. Eat light so you have energy. ENGAGE WITH ENERGY State is everything. Engage women in a conversation. Put ENERGY in it. Be present, not in your head. Meditate to stay more present. Do things that get you more out of your head and into your body. BE WILLING TO MAKE A FOOL OUT OF YOURSELF This is a process you'll probably remember on your death bed. It's going to be one of the memories when you were really attacking life. Remember, you will never regret what you do. You will only smile and laugh about it later, no matter how bad it may feel now. But you will regret everything you don't do. This is growth. Making a fool out of yourself is WAY better than doing nothing. If you stay at home, go to work and come back, you won't make a fool out of yourself but you'll be the same as you were yesterday. Making a fool out of yourself = GROWTH. Project yourself into the future and ask yourself, "If I do this and I make a fool out of myself, will my life be better in 1 year, 2 years, 5 years?" If I don't do this, will I regret it when I'm 80? Based on your answer, act. |
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Sat Apr 18, 2015 6:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How To Be The Confident Sexy Motherf**** |
RECOGNISE, DEFINE AND ATTACK YOUR ENEMIES Is it fear? Is it you have a problem with other guys seeing that you've made a fool out of yourself? Is it your fear that you'll get afraid and insecure in front of a girl? Is it that you won't know what to say? Recognise and ATTACK your inner enemies. Create a MISSION for each enemy and beat it. MY ENEMY #1: I AM AFRAID THAT I WILL EMBARASS MYSELF IN FRONT OF OTHER GUYS WHO ARE LOOKING AS I AM APPROACHING A WOMAN Mission: What can I do that would DIRECTLY lead to embarrassing myself in front of other guys, which would lead to me demonstrating to myself that guys don't give a shit about me? 1. Approach women in front a group of guys, and get rejected by a woman 10 times MY ENEMY #2: I'M AFRAID WOMEN WOULD THINK I'M WEIRD WHEN I APPROACH THEM Mission: What is the weirdest thing i can do that would make women think I'm weird? 1. Walk up to women and start doing pushups - 1x with not attractive women - 1x with mildly attractive women - 1x with highly attractive women MY ENEMY #3: I BAIL OUT WHEN THE CONVERSATION STARTS BEING UNCOMFORTABLE Mission: When I say something and it starts feeling uncomfortable, do something even MORE uncomfortable, like the pushup challenge. Then get back up and say, "So what else is up?" and stick to the conversation until the uncomforted passes. |
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