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Well... I think I'm suffering a severe case of burn out.
I've had a good run of success this year, lots of daygame, a couple of enjoyable relationships, even managed to seduce my ex-wife at one point. But the turning point was around Easter when a relationship ended badly and since then my heart just isn't in it. I can't figure it out but it shot my confidence and although I've been gaming since, my heart just isn't in it. I feel old (41), I think I'm starting to look my age, I really can't be bothered doing either day or night game... just can't be bothered any more.
Things should be going good. I got picked up by a fairly well known musician at a party a couple of weeks ago, my inner game is usually great, I live what would probably be seen as a high value lifestyle, I've usually no social anxieties, I'm usually incredibly confident, I've got a lot of PUA knowledge but... I really don't have the motivation at the minute. I feel like just cruising it out, getting into other stuff. Trouble is, I like women, I like sex and I enjoy the company of women maybe more than men.
So... I know the right answer, force yourself to sarge. Easier said than done. Any other advice? Anyone had similar experience?
I've had a good run of success this year, lots of daygame, a couple of enjoyable relationships, even managed to seduce my ex-wife at one point. But the turning point was around Easter when a relationship ended badly and since then my heart just isn't in it. I can't figure it out but it shot my confidence and although I've been gaming since, my heart just isn't in it. I feel old (41), I think I'm starting to look my age, I really can't be bothered doing either day or night game... just can't be bothered any more.
Things should be going good. I got picked up by a fairly well known musician at a party a couple of weeks ago, my inner game is usually great, I live what would probably be seen as a high value lifestyle, I've usually no social anxieties, I'm usually incredibly confident, I've got a lot of PUA knowledge but... I really don't have the motivation at the minute. I feel like just cruising it out, getting into other stuff. Trouble is, I like women, I like sex and I enjoy the company of women maybe more than men.
So... I know the right answer, force yourself to sarge. Easier said than done. Any other advice? Anyone had similar experience?
No worries man. Take time to sit back and re-charge for a week or 2. Take on new activities where you can still put yourself in front of opportunity. Sit back an analyze your life and what different approaches you can make
What if you took something like a Yoga class or something similar? You can relax but you'll also be surrounded by women in a low pressure situation... when you feel re-charged you can go at it again. Just don't give up!
