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Author:  neoneil [ Thu May 08, 2014 10:50 am ]
Post subject:  Dealing with hatred, racism, discrimmination
Hey,
How are you all?
I am very new to this forum hoping to get some serious advice and help from the lovely people in this forum.

So the story is that I was a player or pua for a very brief time in my country(India) before I left for Montreal,Canada, where(in India) I dated so many women after losing almost 100 pounds.My confidence shooted off the roof and I started talking to women and got great results.I could see women being attracted to me and being available to me all the time.It was the best feeling ever!!!!!

But when I arrived in Montreal, things just changed for the worse. I've been here from the past 1 1/2 years and I have seen myself dealing with very strong racism against me. Now I know that we dont stand anywhere in terms of dating and no women likes us,OK! I get it but do they hate us so much that they wont even reply even if I ask them how are you? or can you please help me in something? I mean all my "white" friends from different cultures started dating as soon as they arrived in Montreal and have multiple girlfriends and I'm talking about almost 95% of my friends. But I have never seen any Indian guy even having a women friend let alone a girlfriend.

Now the thing is that I got used to discrimmination and racism, I can handle it no biggies, the thing is that like any other human being I too seek for love,I dont have any pre-requisite for having a women,she can be anyone: beautiful,ugly,fat,black,brown,white, but the only thing I seek is love, and thats it!! But if people (specially women) are wayy to racist against me, will I ever be in love in my entire life?

I mean is it a sin to be an Indian???

I know women hate Indian men ,we are the ugliest, hairiest, rude, smelly and many more!! But I have seen even uglier,hairier,ruder(if that exists lol), smellier be in a relationship just so because they were white. I mean I am sure I look a lot better than an average indian(i groom myself, go to gym, eat healthy,6 packs e.t.c) but still the hatred gets to me when I see even the ugly, rude, abusive, drug addicts, being in multiple relationships and me here stuck with no women at all.
I mean I haven't even spoken to any girl in 1 year or so after dealing with racism. So I dont know any women except my mom!! :P

Also whenever I go to my male friend's parties,all the girls would never even introduce themselves or even if I say hi I never get any response, they will talk to anyone but me. I want to say that the only reason that fits would be that they are racists.

Emotionally now I can handle it, it doesnt makes me mad anymore, so you all can say whatever you wish like but I know how it feels like to have someone you can give/get love and I seriously want to be in love.

So my question is how do I get ahead of this problem? Need help from anyone having any worthfull knowledge in this area and please reply seriously.
Author:  Shine83 [ Thu May 08, 2014 3:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dealing with hatred, racism, discrimmination
I feel it hard to believe that in a country like you mention, things like you said are happening with you.


My father told me that never be attached to outcome. And never expect anything from anyone. so don’t expect everyone will love you no strong how your game is and how much sexy you look.

No one can make everyone happy. You just have to move on and know that some people are dead in their head.

You should know some people try to stick with their race or kind and some people prefer inter-racial relations.

Never take anything personal.

Are you a funny person or you take everything serious? Have you checked why you are not getting results?

All you have to do is to sit and work on your inner game and make some changes in you because not every one hates Indians.
Author:  neoneil [ Fri May 09, 2014 12:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Dealing with hatred, racism, discrimmination
Thanks Shine83 for replying!!Cheers!!

Yeah even I thought that maybe I do need to work on my inner game. It's true that I am very serious most of the time but sometimes when I am happy and really feel like just conversating,and I open myself up and I do try to talk, it feels really weird to not get a reply back(like they are stoned and totally disinterested!!)loll

Although I am seriously considering an advice from person who can give me a feedback as to why am I not getting into the basics of social skills, maybe I am too serious or too talkative and so on!! I find its really difficult to objectify myself and see as a third person, but I think someone who has a really good knowledge and skills can surely help me. Now the problem would be who can I go to for an advice??

Do you know anyone???

Thanks Mate!!! 8) 8)
Author:  Heartnet [ Mon Jun 02, 2014 5:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Dealing with hatred, racism, discrimmination
pfff, that is rediculous, im a short, chinese man with glasses.
Over the years that I been in the game, I saw it all, fat guy with perfect 10s. 40 yrs old man going home with 20s.
Physical appearance help but it never just that.
Most of the time, you put yourself too low compare to her, mutual fear is the worst thing in game.

If you want to see what homophobia look like, go to the gay village.

Here is a good exercice for you:
Go hangout with people that you think you would never hangout with and shortly you will see that they are not what you think they are.
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