Okay, I believe that what Im about to say it's common knowledge so I won't wrap it in some beautiful paragraphs with nice word-plays and all that.
Have handicaps and enjoy it.
I am fat. I weigh 135 kg or 297 pounds (If im correct) and Im 185 cm or 6'' 1' (Im not familiar with inches and stuff) and I have great interactions all the time, because I don't really, (really, really) care about it, I just enjoy it and use it to my advantage.
For example, when you see a fat guy you ALWAYS hope that he is insane and not the emo/insecure/loser kind. The "insane fat-man" is the man that doesn't care at all. He doesn't care about himself in the first place, he don't want to be "okay" or "normal" or "sane" that's why he makes "whoa"/"magic"/"insane" stuff happen! I've made great friends and connections just from that, just from being me and not pretending being the man that I could/should be. And I've learned to love it, after I went "insane"
Truth be told it's not easy to win over yourself but we can all do it, it's just something we have to do it.I usually get a look from girls saying "Im safe from your being annoying to me" just because they think that Im not confident or Im not ready to approach them and then BOOM! "Hey baby, what's your name?" and from then on is just magic and dragons.
Fat people tend to be awkward, stressed, needy (of approval) and highly insecure when they interact with the opposite sex, so... be the opposite dummy!! Win your handicaps!!
That can be applied to anyone.
For example, I have a friend with an amazing body, great looks overall, ("it's like he's Photoshopped", lol) and yet he has less success with women than I've ever had because he can't win his handicap. Which is his obsession about himself... and girls, even though they like what they see (and they storm on it god dammit), they don't like what they get. Because his mind-state is always like this "not enough, I need more hours at the gym and better nutrition because I am not good enough" so he ends up being... not good enough for them.
See my point now?
Be the better man that you are and then, become the greater man you can be.
PS1: Im not stating that being fat is awesome. Im awesome being fat. It's unhealthy, so don't try to get fat
PS2: Im not trying to destroy anyone s inner reality here, Im just presenting my truth.
PS3: Excuse my spelling and grammar because Im from Eastern Europe so Im not speaking/writing in English daily
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