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| Author: | eddiemurphy [ Tue Nov 19, 2013 2:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Sexual problems and NLP |
Hello there... Hope someone can give me some good advice and that I am posting on the right place. Or at least direct me somewhere where I could get advice. I am a 31 yo male. Along the years I have developed a very negative atitude towards sex. And ultimately have caused me to have not much interest in sex and girls and erectile disfunction. Even though I´ve always enjoyed masturbation and porn, I don´t believe I did it in excess. All I wanted was to be good, at least satisfactory. I have basic knowledge of NLP, but feel and believe it works. Also other areas of psychology. So tracking back and analysing my atitudes and feelings towards sex I believe I have found how these have developed along the years. First off, since a young boy I´ve always been absolutely crazy about girls. All I coul think of all day was girls. Almost addicted to them and was always nice to them. After dating for the first times and having a couple girlfriends I couldnt say I had any problems. Only fear I had was if I was with someone I knew was more experienced than me it would freak me out by the possibility of not matching a stantard. And to make the rest of the story short here is a list of the fears I used to have, and that has developed until this moment probably: 1- Fear I wouldnt get it up for round 2 and 3. 2- Fear that I would ejaculate too quickly and not get up again in the sequence. 3- Fear that a condom would make me lose my erection, lose sensibility. 4- Fear I wouldnt get it up at all. I would say that those fears developed in that exact sequence, one adding up to the previous fear. Which led me to avoid women completely for some time. Which I believe led to develop the following "false" beliefs: 1- I am not good with sex because I dont satisfy women, because I dont work properly. 2- I don´t like sex, because it´s too much hassle. 3- I don´t like women, because I can´t satisfy their demands. Now, while I know that sex is wonderful(when I am able to perform it) and I am still very attracted to the female beauty, those are the feelings I have constantly. So, my question is: How can I let go of those fears and false beliefs by using NLP? I much appreciate any help. Thanks Eddie |
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