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| Author: | BlackCherry [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 10:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Why isn't PUA working for me? |
I learned about PUA last summer after getting over a bad break up with my first gf ever. (I'm over don't worry, I broke up with her) I learned about Mystery Method, IOI, IODs, Negging, Push and Pull, DHV, DQs, etc I spent alot of time learning and trying this things out in the field for about a year now. Yeah I have gotten girls interested in me. But I never can get a GF. I'm always being cocky funny and fixing my posture. I make sure I'm never desperate. I always dress the best. People call me over confident so confidence is not an issue. I've never let looks bother me at all but I am decent looking. Girls hangout with me and I do get alot of kino in. (yes doing the gay test as well) But I never get a gf. I always have good hygiene. I try to DHV myself with all the points, but it just doesn't work. I don't know what I am doing. I'm 17 and in Highschool help me. If this continues I might lose hope in PUA...... |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 11:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Why isn't PUA working for me? |
There's a lot of life ahead of you. At your age, what you about to read might sound condescending or inappropriate but look, I am not a typical old fogie who is recommending that you concentrate on your studies, jack off for the rest of your life, and get hitched with a good ol' fashioned girl. My advice comes purely from my hope that you will probably some day able to connect with any and every girl that strikes your fancy. In order to do that... forget all what you 'think' is 'pick up' and do exactly what those square, dumb ass guidance counselors suggest that you do. Focus on school. Focus on college. Focus on good relations. Focus on social awareness. What you currently think of as 10's are in fact 5's out in the real World. Chill out. Focus. Get ready. |
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| Author: | BlackCherry [ Thu Nov 14, 2013 1:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Why isn't PUA working for me? |
Thanks for the advice man but could there still be something I'm doing wrong, I'm off to college next year. I just wanna know what I'm doing wrong. I'm a good student so I'm okay with school lol. I understand what you mean but I really want t work on calibration lol 
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| Author: | kasabi [ Thu Nov 14, 2013 1:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Why isn't PUA working for me? |
Even the most talented PUA's on this board who began at your age had no idea WTF they were getting into and no idea why they were getting laid. They just repeated their shit to every girl who crossed their paths and if the 13th girl sucked their cock, they were happy but had no clue why the 13th girl shed her undies. Read some of the journals on the "Field Report" section. If you are as accomplished as you think you are, then a few pages of tweaks should get you into pussy land. Otherwise, you you might discover that this isn't as easy as it might seem. |
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| Author: | needforspeed [ Thu Nov 14, 2013 10:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Why isn't PUA working for me? |
It sounds like you are not building any sexual tension. Yes, you are confident and are trying out verbal game, but at the end of the day if you are not escalating sexually then none of that matters. Obviously, helps if you take or meet girls in a dark environment with alcohol...ie a bar..Lol from there, as you talk just touch her and lead lets go dance, lets get a drink, and just smoothly escalate, always invade her personal space to generate attraction and go for the kiss, following that give her a none sexual reason to go home with you, more likely she will go with that "you know, I have a great place, come on lets go, we can chill there for a bit, we can have a glass of wine" once the girl is back, chill, put some relaxing music on, get her a drink, slow down your words, hold eye contact, kiss her, once she is in your room she will switch to lets have sex mode and its on.... in terms of girlfriend once sex is out of the way, next day offer to take her home but stop off for some lunch.... basically keep in touch with her show that you are not just after sex. hope that helps. Finally, its none of the words that get you the girl in my opinion, it has everything to do with your mindset, body language, voice, actions, leaderships, dominance... the words of worth like 5-10% At your age as well be fun, and GO DIRECT... young women will appreciate that far more, a lot of advice from PUA gurus seems to lend itself to older women over 25... for the younger ones, telling her in a confident way, you are cute, who are you? will get you much further, you dont need all these routines.... just honesty, and a plan.... your cute, wanted to say hello, I'm thirsty, how about a coffee? actually, yes lets get a coffee, come on.... Depending on when you meet the girl in the day or night, remember more so in the day, the pua thing can come across as weird and creepy to women, so make sure that you demonstrate an understanding of this for example after doing what I said earlier asking her for a coffee, say sorry I know its really random but you only live once, and I have to meet a friend in like an hour, so why not right... Examples of good direct approaching and body language watch this!!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlWrFgIR6CU |
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| Author: | BlackCherry [ Tue Dec 31, 2013 5:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Why isn't PUA working for me? |
Late response but thanks guys! Really appreciated! |
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