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Author:  ryanmurph8 [ Thu Aug 15, 2013 6:53 pm ]
Post subject:  random confidence drop and "slump"

I've been sarging for the past two years. Last year when I began the process, I was very successful and had complete confidence and no approach anxiety. I could approach an hb8+ and begin an engaging conversation and I could feel the interest coming from the girl, However recently I've began to be very unsuccessful and it is fucking with my mind. Now when I look in the mirror I think I look weird and worse when I approach girls I can almost feel that there trying to leave the conversation as fast as possible. Because I'm in highschool, I do sarge a lot of women I already know which could be affecting things? But even girls that I have already hooked up with seem not interested. It's almost like they had a large meeting and told each other that I am not attractive anymore. Any advice on regaining my inner game? Thanks

Author:  ZealousR [ Fri Aug 16, 2013 5:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: random confidence drop and "slump"

Just gettingout of high school you'll I can tell you a few things about sarging within high school.

First. Don't.
but that's easier said than done so try not not as much as you can. Instead sarge outside the school, at a local mall is good, a place where you'll meet girls outside your school.

The reason for this is that girls in high school especially in the same school have communication and eyes on guys.
By this I mean when there is a guy who is confident and savvy he'll be able to get more girls of his choice. At the same time most girls don't want a fuck buddy relationship and will try to get the guy for courting purposes to higher the girls value.

Now the problem may be 'if the guy just wants to bang all the chicks, not date' who the hell wouldn't , right?
But you can only go so far. Soon enough the high school image for the guy is a player. Fuck yeah that's awesome, that's what you are..but the game would become that much more difficult because as women who go to the same school communicate that 'he's smooth but is just another player' the amount of effort to hook a date or alone tine with a girl may increase.

During high school I used to walk the halls getting hugs from girls like crazy. Before I knew it that stopped and I felt as if my 15 minds of fame were over and a decline in my confidence.
So I found my own style, got my confidence back and hit public places practicing eye contact, IOIs, dominant body language, and just confidence alone can draw positive outcomes.



Keep your head together, don't AFC just yet 8)
- Zealous

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