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| Author: | Dryden [ Fri Aug 09, 2013 4:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | book recommendation: Give him back his balls |
The book is called Give him back his balls by Brigitte Sumner (2006). It's a guide for women on how to improve their relationship by being more feminine, but at the same time it's a guide for guys on how to be more masculine. The basic concept is that female energy attracts male energy and vice versa. In today's world of emancipation and equal rights the polarization of men vs. women has watered down to the extent that many women have grown a pair of balls, and many men have lost theirs. Traditional roles for men included protection, income, problem solving and planning. Men have a focused, directive mind that is intent on solving problems and taking action. Women have an unfocused, supportive mind that can handle many things simultaneously and that is intent on nourishing and caring and creating. Basically, a woman likes it when a man decides for her. A man doesn't like it at all when his woman decides too many things for him, he loses attraction for her and she loses attraction for him because in such a relationship, he becomes a wuss (loses his balls). The author recommends women to change their language and body language so as to express more feminine qualities. For example, instead of telling your man "Can you take the garbage out tomorrow?" you would say "Tomorrow is garbage day" and leave it at that. Instead of planning a vacation, selecting the destination and doing the booking, you would say that you'd love to go on a vacation and leave it at that. You trust your man to do his thing and give him space to surprise you. I haven't finished the book yet, but there is also a chapter for men specifically. Feminine words: suspect, magical, honey, feel, chat, love, yes, good, please, maybe Male words: have to, never, focus, know, prove, no, do, now, action, done. Feminine sentences: - I'll see how I feel - Dinner is ready - I would like to .... - Honey, take me to ... - I changed my mind - I like that Male sentences: - Great - That's interesting - That's cool - I'll think about it - Let's eat - I ordered / I booked ... - I will .... - Can you do groceries? - Come, let's go - Why did you do that? What I find interesting is that much of David DeAngelo's Cocky & Funny retorts are focused on dealing with a woman who is showing balls. For example "Honey, will you bring me flowers?" "Are you kidding me, I don't have the money for that!" "Oh please" "No, not a chance" Then 3 days later you bring her something else, like a box of chocolates she loves. You keep the initiative in your hand and also the directiveness in what present you are going to give, what place you are going to pick, etcetera. This way you can keep surprising her and she loves that. Basically, this author says that the worst thing that can happen to a relationship, is that the woman is the one who ends up having the balls, in the relationship. This kills attraction and passion. There is a chapter on body language, clothing, sex, being the head of the family, raising boys as men and girls as women, and what to do when you're single - if you as a guy show too much feminine qualities, you may be filling the gap that otherwise a woman would come and take. Also a chapter for men and how to grow balls. |
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