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| Author: | sverdlov.x [ Fri Jun 14, 2013 10:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | I need some serious inner game help! |
Although I'm not a hardcore PUA I have to say I'm not the worst. I get HB7's without even gaming them but this isn't the issue. About 6 months back I had serious one-itis but I got over it. I think it's given me a major mental block though. The only way I can explain what's happening is that I'm holding out for better girls, even if I have an awesome one in front of me! It's like I have one-itis for an imaginary girl who's like HBover9000 or something. I don't know if it's like a commitment issue, I mean come on it really shouldn't be, but this 'I can do better' mentality is making me do stupid things. I try to game girls I don't like or that are harder to get just for the thrill of it, while rejecting easier lays with really hot and just generally nice girls. I don't mean just not going for easier girls, I actually mean REJECTING THEM! So if they try to kiss close (one girl asked after 2 weeks if we could be friends with benefits, which is a new one for me) I just blow them off. What's happening to me?! |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Fri Jun 14, 2013 3:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I need some serious inner game help! |
.... Why would you have sex with a girl you are not attracted to? I honestly like your mindset. Keep working to get the girls you really want instead of settling for something less. Just make sure you are working to get those girls and not waiting for one to fall into your lap... |
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| Author: | Striderr [ Mon Jun 17, 2013 4:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I need some serious inner game help! |
I felt a bit like this recently. I think for me it's a problem of being somewhat unsettled in myself. Even though I think I'm happy, there's something inside of me which is subconsciously making me think that the ladies I choose are a reflection upon me so I'm continually saying "next" to each opportunity that passes by.. If I was truly happy, I wouldn't be thinking like this and would just take every opportunity that seems decent for the fun of it But that's just me So the question I might ask is are you focusing enough on your core goals? A shift in focus would help you put less weight on finding HB9001 and more on enjoying yourself when you're not working on your goals |
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| Author: | Bruce-Wayne [ Tue Jul 16, 2013 7:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I need some serious inner game help! |
While you might consider this an inner game issue, it's actually a positive inner game quality. You have a high level of ENTITLEMENT which means you feel entitled to the best of the best instead of settling for less than perfect. This is good, but only when you can match the game to get the higher scale women. |
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