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| Author: | RockstarPUA [ Sat May 18, 2013 10:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | I need to believe in myself |
When I was younger, I was chubby, had braces and was basically no good with girls. And it has always given me confidence issues since. However, once I began university, my body changed, I slimmed out, became tall (about 6ft 2) and generally better looking. Though the problem is i still cant shake the feeling that Im unattractive. In the past i have been approached by and managed to make out with a HB10. And also heard through the grapevine that a couple of 9's and 10's fancied me. But when out on the pull I only ever went for 4's,5's and 6's because thats still all i feel i am capable of. Im sure im not the only one to feel like this, so what advice can people give to help me realise my potential and make me believe in myself that I can approach hotter girls? |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Sat May 18, 2013 11:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I need to believe in myself |
make some female friends man, get some girls around you that you don't have to try to sleep with and get used to being around girls more often, get to a good sweet spot where you can get your intentions across to girls you like but not need to be sleeping with every girl you see on a regular basis in short, get more women in your life in general and don't be ashamed to let the ones you are interested in know it and realize that if one is not interested back, it's not the end of the world, you can make a new friend, and she will likely have friends, and those friends lead to more friends and so on and so on, there are billions of girls out there and it's not a big deal to go after it again and again and again as much as you want until it's not important anymore good luck |
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| Author: | Disco90 [ Sat May 18, 2013 7:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I need to believe in myself |
The main reason I got into PUA was because I was kind of a half natural; I had a good record with women but really I was just a top end AFC, I relied on my looks to much and used that to do as you do, get with girls well below my looks level because it was easy, basically. Since Ive got into PUA Im getting more girls, but also hotter ones. Basically my problem was a kind of AA with hot girls. So to solve it all I did was to make a consious desicion to only go after girls I thought were really good looking for a few weeks, and at same time not bother with any girls that I didnt consider to be in the top 5-10 of the place I was in. After a while, I found my confidence with these HB7s and upwards sky rocketed, none of them are out of my reach now. So basically, practice makes perfect mate. Don't be afraid to fail with these women, and you'll find out quickly that most of the time you won't fail. |
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