Do something you are good at competitively. If you ride a bike, compete, if you are good at computer games, compete, if you are a fat bastard win a pie eating competition and be proud of it all. These are examples but really, focus on yourself and what you are good at and love and that will breed confidence in you. Do not get your validation from women and sex ever because this will possibly lead you down a path to addiction!

If you think about it, validation from women is probably the lowest for of validation since it is inbuilt in them to sleep with men, so really there is nothing to it.

However, building experience and confidence in something you love is challenging and beyond most people. That is why so many suffer from a lack of confidence/self esteem.

I'm not quite sure what you mean about mirroring the girls.

I'm very dominant. If I get bored from a girl I walk away. They have a hard time entertaining me or maybe I have a hard time being interested in them enough to be entertained by them. I feel as if I'm too smart for my own good. I only like deep intellectual conversation. Hardly anyone can get involved in those sort of conversations so I either get bored quickly or don't approach at all because I judge them before I meet them. When it gets slow and awkward I bow out. I don't know how to deeply invest myself in the other person because they bore me. There's nothing exciting about who the other person is. Unless they're an astronaut I don't care to hear about their problems. I like talking about passions and things going on in the world.

I think the biggest issue is that I cannot relate to women. I can't find common ground with them. I don't like being fake to feign interest in them.

Mirroring the girls means reciprocating the interest level they are expressing. If your goal is to fuck a girl, it means you don't fawn all over her if she calls you once a week. It means you also call her once a week, because fawning all over her in between makes you look needy and unattractive.

Your recent post is confusing to me. First you say you have no success with women and you need success for validation. Yet your last post sounds like it isn't validation that you need at all. It just sounds like you want women to jump on your cock because you are just so fucking smart and great that it should be obvious to them immediately.

You can't change the truth. Perhaps you are very intelligent, and perhaps you do like deep intellectual conversation. But the facts are that women engage in these things with people they know and trust. You being a man, they do not trust you.

That said, you can use PU to screen chicks until you find one that trips your trigger. What you can't do is jump right in on the first date and bombard one that you think could fit the bill and expect her to just open up to you like that. If that's what you want, I would suggest sarging online, because women are more apt to just open up to a stranger on the internet because they can do so with the security of anonymity. In the real world, it's highly likely that you will have to feign interest and stick around through the courting period to reach the point where the woman you're fucking is also your best friend. Just because she doesn't expose herself to you completely on the first date doesn't mean she's of lesser intelligence than you.

In summary, I'm truly confused what you're after. Do you need to fuck chicks for self validation and are frustrated that you aren't getting any pussy? Or are you just pissed that to actually get pussy you have to have some patience and that you can't snap your fingers and have a 10 jump on your cock?